Financial Awareness, Masculinity Insights, and Relationship Navigation

Embark on an entrepreneurial adventure with us as we recount our transition from cash-centric living to the savvy world of credit management. Through personal stories and practical advice, we unravel the complexities of credit lines, tax obligations, and payroll challenges, offering a peek into the financial hurdles faced by business owners. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur or just curious about the importance of financial literacy, our insights are designed to empower you with the knowledge needed to build and maintain strong financial foundations.

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Chapters

• 0:00 Budgeting and Subscription Dilemmas
• 11:33 The Importance of Building Credit
• 19:18 Financial Learning and Parenting Tips
• 28:05 Exploring Career Paths and Financial Literacy
• 37:25 Business Networking and Sports Enthusiasm
• 44:48 College Football Talk and Buckeyes Pride
• 52:24 Gender Roles and Relationship Advice
• 57:56 Masculinity and Dating Tips
• 1:08:26 Motivation and Taking Charge
• 1:20:01 Navigating Masculinity and Relationship Dynamics
• 1:28:28 Trust Issues and Life Lessons

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:00

What we gonna talk about when we just hey, what's up, bro, what's going on with you? We should just go yeah, for sure, man. A lot of times it's very organic, yeah, and I prefer for our shows and conversations to actually be that way, man, whereas we actually just get to. You know think I don't want to be too scripted. I feel like sometimes, with a lot of the shows, a lot of people you know they got their points and things they want to talk about for sure. But I actually feel like when we just let it roll organically, people get to see that natural flow, that natural like oh no, them niggas really choppy For sure. And on the flip side, it's a lot of shit that we can't fucking say on the podcast Just like, yeah, that's the way to do it, that's all shit. I know we asked permission to speak freely, but I ain't free from repercussions. We ain't ready for some facts. We be having to hold back a little bit. We got families that we happy with, for sure, for sure, for sure, for sure, man, get that part out. So a couple things we most definitely want to talk about today, man. We going into the holiday season, so a lot of times you find a lot of people. They start budget cutting, they start kind of saving a lot of different things. Man, are you finding yourself in that place to be able to make that Christmas budget or that Thanksgiving budget? First of all, forget the Christmas budget. I'm cutting all the time. I'm cutting for spring. I got a deck to build. I'm cutting all the time. I'm cutting for spring. I got a deck to build. I'm trying to put a deck together. That sounds like a 1% problem. Yeah, how much is it going to cost me to build this deck? I need 40, 20-foot 2x4. Not to mention just tools and shit. I need a bunch of nails. Time, you get a whole 1,000. I need a bunch of nails. Time, yeah, you get a whole like a thousand boxes of nails. Like, I'm teetering Like okay, yeah, or like do I use a nail gun or do I just hammer this shit in with Granddaddy Hammer? I still got my Granddaddy's hammer. Hey, that's playing mad homage. Yeah, for sure, that sound like mad work, though. And when that with me, he's strong. He was strong, john Henry, with that jam, let your apples swing, but nah, man. So listen, I know we don't like to really time stamp our episode, for sure, for sure. But it is October 14th and it's cold. Yeah, it's cold, man, when I woke up this morning, I looked and I got, I got, I got, I got, ooh, that fan, hey, hey, that fan, don't wait up. Oh yeah, oh yeah. But I look at my shit and I'm like Feels like 40, huh. So it's time. So like Going back into the Cut your heat on yet, yes, yes, yes, you gotta thaw it out Like another week. So it's time. So like going back into the Cut your heat on yet, yes, yes, yes, you got to thaw it out like another week. Yes, no, no. So freedom speakers LeVon and I are lay low.

Speaker 1: 2:58

As you may know him, we both have a lot of square footage in our home. Yes, Okay. So I have a wife that would complain about it being cold, yeah, and I freeze her out all year long with the ceiling fan on the fan, blowing in my face. The door cracked With two blankets, yeah, with two blankets, and she got to be nuzzled up next to me. So when she like, hey, it's cold, I go ahead and turn that heat up on At the same time.

Speaker 1: 3:28

Bro, we just had some work done, so I wanted to test out like, oh yeah, how well insulated you are, yeah for sure. So I wanted to test out, I get that, I get that. So I could keep it at like 69, 70 on heat and AC. Yeah, compared to what it used to be, I had to crank it up to like 73, 74. Man, I'm trying to thug it out because we at the point like it's just getting cold, you know, you kind of got like a financial decision to make when that heat cut on. You know what I mean. So with us, my wife, she work from home one to two days a week now. So One to two days a week now.

Speaker 1: 4:02

So as far as her office go, it's like, hey, you don't need no heat in there right now. Close them, damn vents. Like I cut the shit on for you the morning. I know you, finna, work in there, but other than that, keep that door closed. You trying to keep your computers warm, fuck, you don't need no appliances. They could be cold, they could be. Look old, it ain't freezing in there. But definitely appliance they could be, they could be, they could be. Look, oh, it ain't freezing in there. But definitely, when it comes down to the budgeting man, that heat be a bitch. You can't do it all. You can't. Nah, we got small kids and shit. They're gonna be sick nose running. We can't have that.

Speaker 1: 4:37

But as far as some of the things I'm doing, as far as budgeting, man, my, my, um, my subscriptions the subscriptions be getting us in trouble, man. You got your. You know if you got like a fucking food subscription, you know what I'm saying. If you, if you like me well, I don't really do this, I did once I tried it, but you got like a little car wash subscription, nigga, twenty dollars a month, watch every day, you want to twenty dollars. So if I watch twice, the rest of them for the month frame, pretty much you end up going just twice. They be getting this, but the subscription gets you in trouble, man. So, like I told you earlier, screw Netflix, not messing with them, they'll wax you, although Now this means being extra cheap, because they got a package to where you can run one device with them. You know they'll wax you, although now this made me an extra cheap, right, because they got a package to where you can run one device at a time. Okay, one device I want to say is $7.99. It might be $6.99, but it's around seven dollars a month.

Speaker 1: 5:41

Ain't no extra audio bump, you know, because when you pay for that, shit's like oh, I can hear it different, that Dobly Adam sounds and shit, I hear it, you know. Plus, I got the nice shit you gon' hear it, you know, yeah. So, uh, sorry, man, forget that. You know, I don't care that it coming 480i, I can see. I can see TV look like a finger painting. Damn a finger painting. Damn Resolution, be like that. It ain't that bad. When you get used to Take your glasses off, you'll be fine. Take you back to a Fatback TV Resolution. Got a dinosaur in there. But listen, man. So I did that. But I'm like you know what, forget that. Because Netflix, you know they do a good job, man, but I don't really watch it that much, man. But bundle down. It's like look, I don't even need ESPN, let me drop this shit down.

Speaker 1: 6:26

You know, again, just budgeting, whether it be for Christmas or just trying to kick it in June. Oh, yeah, trying to kick it in June. I'm saving up my coins and doing push-ups now, bro, yeah, y'all drinking water and shit. Hey, I'm going to show you my steps. Are you serious? Yeah, gonna show you my steps. Are you serious? Yeah, oh yeah, I'm gonna show you my steps. See how I burn. There's been calories, yeah, steps, I had 19 000 steps yesterday. Some crazy, not that many, but you know what I mean? See, that was up there, I was up there, I was up there.

Speaker 1: 6:53

So, uh, but as far as the disney bundle man, I go on there and I see that they have you can get disney plus hulu and h Max. I didn't know Max was part of their shit, but at some point it happened contractually. And Max with ads for $16 a month. I'm like, oh, run it, run it. My wife, when she found out this shit got ads, she like man, I thought I was tripping. I ain't nobody do now, because I get all three of these for $16 a month. All I got to do is watch a little 40-second commercial every now and again. Hey, it's going to teach you patience, baby. I'm with that. It's going to teach you patience because we grew up in a time where freedom speaker, we might be identifying our age right now, but I just turned 37 this year.

Speaker 1: 7:41

So, but I just turned 37 this year, so I grew up in a time frame where one you was fortunate if you had a TV in the house, or if you had a TV in your room, or you had a TV that was still in color, or you had a TV that all the channels came in. You didn't have to like one knob at the top. It was like the 3, 5, 8, 19. Then you had PBS at the bottom 25, 43, 55. It was 3 and five came in. Good, if you lucky, channel Eight came in, the best, you're going to end up getting one of them QVC channels real staticky though you know, you young, you ain't got no money anyway, you don't need that. Then you got 19. You can catch a Browns game over I'm forgetting about them W-O-I-O. You got to have that. You got 43.

Speaker 1: 8:25

Remember UPN? Yeah, yeah, the fucking Malcolm and Eddie and the Williams Brothers and shit used to come on Homeboys and Outer Space, all that, all that. Oh shit, listen, you skip through. You're going to get Channel 61. It's all Spanish. Yeah, that's Telemundo. Yeah, te, they always lie. Yeah, telemundo, the PC movie.

Speaker 1: 8:47

And then 55. 55 was like the shit after that. That's it, bro. You had about 8 channels. 55 was with WVIZ. No, it was WB. Wviz was a PBS, pbs and shit. That was 25 channel. 55 was the WB, the WB, yeah, wb. So in the morning you can watch your cartoons and shit and in the evening you're watching like Sabrina the Teenage Witch. Actually, I remember watching that. I can't remember if it was UPN at the time, but they used to get the Cavs games. Now, not only are we aging ourselves, but we're also aging LeBron James early LeBron career, like his first three years in Cleveland.

Speaker 1: 9:28

The Cavs was coming on regular degular, shmegular, ass TV On 43. On 43. You remember them? They started wearing the hardwood classic jerseys from like the 70s. They had like the blocks on the side. Oh, you talking like 03? Yeah, yeah, 04?. They started bringing them back.

Speaker 1: 9:45

So, listen, I would watch the Cavs games. I had a little small nigga, 18-inch black and white TV in my room. They got tablets this size now Computer screens yeah, just carrying them around all day. So I would watch the Cavs games on that TV. Nigga, I had no idea what color them jerseys were, word, until one day I went to school and I happened to see the newspaper. The Cavs did something great and they was on the cover of the newspaper. I'm like, oh shit, them bitches gold and with the white and burgundy stripe on the side, the wine and gold choice. I had no idea what color them jerseys was, bro, and we talking 0405. Yeah, 0405.

Speaker 1: 10:28

Flat screens just coming out? Yeah, like for our generation, maybe. No, at that point, at that point, you was the shit. Flat screen wasn't popular. You may have a flat screen, but that bitch got a big back, got a big ass. You remember that? You got a fat. Who call them fat backs, big back joints, man, he got that donk on the back of that.

Speaker 1: 10:46

We, we've come a long way. Yes, sir, we've come a long way, man, but that's just a couple of things I've been doing as far as. As far as budgeting go, man Got moves to. Oh, dad, I'm hungry. Hey man, we got like an hour before we got to get your brother off the bus. Let's stop and get something, and that shit. I'm like nigga, I'm going to spend fucking $62 just me and this nigga sneaking off, getting Chipotle and burgers and shit. Right now. It's like you're going to be hungry in about three and a half, four hours. Hey man, dinner is in three hours. Son, I'm going to get home, get a snack. I'm making burgers Daddy's famous, you know what I'm saying. But shit like that man. We got McDonald's at home. Yeah, a little goes a long way.

Speaker 1: 11:33

A little goes a long way, especially with the moves my wife and I is trying to make. You know, hey, I've turned into a—I'm trying to figure out how I want to coin this, but really the only way I can is like a credit head. Like a credit head and this is coming from somebody who does not have excellent credit but I'm learning how to get it, how to obtain that, learning some tips and tricks, digging into my shit, seeing what I can do better, credibly. If that's a word, is that a word? That's a word. Uh, it will be, it will be, it will be. But, um, but, like, digging into my, digging into my business, like, all right, bro, what's up? What can you do? Because it's important, man, you and I, we was talking about this shit all last week. We had a whole credit conversation.

Speaker 1: 12:20

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, man, and I'm a person who I'm no credit guru, I'm no credit like I teach it or anything like that, but I'm a heavy user of it, you know, and as a entrepreneur man, I need that. That credit buys you time. You know what I'm saying. Really buys you time and it shows a lot of your financial responsibility for people who are willing to lend you money. Yeah, you know I'm a person who I live off of credit.

Speaker 1: 13:01

So freedom speakers a lot of times I love to give people financial advice of how to you know how to stack their dough, how to get how to understand their bands to a certain degree understand your band. I feel like everybody that has a job should have some lines of credit at least $5,000 to $10,000 lines of credit credit cards, something like that and a bank job is to offer that to you. But you gotta make yourself attractive. You gotta make yourself financially attractive, very much so. And we ain't talking about in the street, yeah, if you just don't work, you holding up bands in your hand and going into the bank feeling like they gonna fuck with you because most of the time that money still gotta be traced to like where it came from. But they don't wanna see your paper Owing money up to your face. They wanna see your paper, your credit history of somebody financed. You loaned you some money. You made some on time payments. Your credit is diversified. You probably own a couple things a car. You know your home. You got a couple credit cards, people loaned you stuff. You were able to show some responsibility.

Speaker 1: 13:58

So, as a financial person man, I always tell like even with the staff, like, man, mr King, I need some money, I need some money. I'm like, man, go apply for that shit, just like I do, go apply for it. Now, you think I'm supposed to give you a dollar. I'm supposed to, I, as the businessman, supposed to give you more money because your life fucked up right now, like because I can't time, because it is like it's unethical for me to just throw money towards you for every issue that you have personally. It don't work like that. The company won't be, would be a company, won't be a company because if everybody got shit, yeah, everybody got shit. So to be like, oh man, I gotta get this person extra 20 grand because, um, you know life happened. It's like, hey, I gotta find 20 grand first to be able to get this shit, the fuck way, I ain't fucking got it, nigga. It's like, nigga, everybody got a sad story, yeah, so it's just learning that or whatever. But telling people, hey, man, go apply for credit, go apply for a credit card, is somebody going to be willing to give it to you? So I give you this example, I give you my own story. When it comes to credit, talk to us, bruh.

Speaker 1: 15:04

I had no, I was hood mentality, street mentality, cash in, cash out, I'll make it back, I'll make it back and I'm just kind of spending. This nigga was John Shad Bruh. I was just spending in and out, in and out, in and out. I wasn't saving nothing. All I a debit account with the bank, but I had money in them. I had debit accounts with money in them, but I'm paying taxes. I'm paying. I got to account for taxes. I got to account for payroll, I got to account for expenses, then I got to account just for deposits. But I'm using all of these accounts to kind of keep things balanced. You know what I'm saying, but I had no credit to be able to keep, keep me afloat on. You gotta be, you gotta use your capital to pay back the capital, because I understand where certain people who are in business like hold on, I gotta still be taxed.

Speaker 1: 15:54

You know how much tax I paid out throughout the year for shit. Like just breaking this down for you freedom speakers, when you ever you get to hear your job complain, or you at your job and you complaining about how much your check was. Like, imagine we paid a gross of all of that. You know what I'm saying. You're like, oh my, no, he took home two bands. I would have been 30, 33. It's like we paid 33. Yeah, yeah, motherfucker, I want to cuss. So bad man. I'm working on my language. But it make you want to know. But, but B word, you like me. Fuck this man. I said for you Bitch, thank you, thanks.

Speaker 1: 16:28

Now the company most definitely got to pay for certain things on behalf of you. You know federal taxes or Social Security, medicaid, all of those taxes, and then you know all of those other things. So it comes with the territory. But that's still an expense. An employee will always, in most industries, be the most expensive expense that the job has. Not only are you paying them per hour or salary, whatever that may be, you're paying unemployment, workman's comp, you're paying so many things to protect them. On top of, you're paying for health insurance if you offer that.

Speaker 1: 17:02

And then you turn around and get spit in the face, sometimes like the job doesn't care about me, like what the fuck? And then we're still a small business. And then you walk around and you see these people. They just mad at you because it's the easiest. You didn't pay me enough. Like, who told you to get a 29 interest on your fucking car note from that buyer payer, like they call you to verify your employment. They know, hey, we know you got that terrible ass fucking deal. We know, man, but that I digress on giving that. Don't digress that business rant of like hey, man, it's, it's money. You got to learn how to control it. We can't I tell them people hey, man, this is where we get our money from the bank. Let's, let me teach you and show you how to have a good relationship with the bank.

Speaker 1: 17:46

Clean up your credit, just like I did of hey, when I started getting into the game of trying to get my credit right, I had to clean up whatever was on the delinquency. That's number one Freedom speakers. Clean up whatever on your credit. That's delinquent. Pay Time Warner Cable. Pay that light bill. Pay JD Byrider, whatever the fuck you owe. You owe boosts from six years ago. Pay them, because the way the credit world look at it, let that shit fall off. It might quote unquote fall off. Or if they resell the debt to somebody, it start all over again. No, it's not, it's get these niggas. They $237. That's all it is. It don't be that much, bro. It don't be that fucking much. Don't be that much, bro. It don't be that fucking much. Get them motherfuckers their money. Man, oh man. I remember real quick nostalgia moment, y'all. That's all it is.

Speaker 1: 18:31

I remember getting my ass beat because I answered the phone for a bill collector at the house and my mama had it like hey, don't you let them know I'm here? But the bill collectors got slick so they used to ask like hey, can I speak to Mrs Johnson? And you'd be like, oh, she's not here right now. I'd take a message. But now it was like hey, can I speak to Kim? And I'm like, oh, my bitch here, go right here. So she get on the phone like hello, they're like you bitch, who was fucking? You, motherfucking, keep running from us. You keep motherfucking running from us. Sit in front of your back. She hung up the phone and came and beat my man. I thought that was auntie on the phone. I thought that was such a sense. She like you bought the eggs.

Speaker 1: 19:18

I'm like you should just pay these people, hey, man, hey, these people, why you mad at me? I don't owe them, pay them, them fucking people, they money, man, so we can sleep at night. I'm crying, man, but bruh, that just took me back for a second man. I'm sorry, man, we back Get getting fucked up because you owe people. You're safe here, thank you. Thank you, I need to reach you. You're safe here. I need to read you Save it. No, that's wild, but that's all it be.

Speaker 1: 19:44

Like you even saying a number like $237. That is something very insignificant, especially when it comes to something that's like fucking up your financial attractor, it's fucking up somebody fucking with you, because I got shit on mine where it's like all right, I got it. Now it ain't $237. But it's still, you know, do enough to where it's like alright, let me, let me knock this shit on. You know what I'm saying and if you use, you know we ain't got no sponsors y'all, but you know CK, karma Credit, y'all say it backwards Karma Credit, we looking for sponsors, we looking for holla at us Credit Karma.

Speaker 1: 20:24

But like I really love that's how I really like got in my business through them, through like experience, really digging into this shit to see like what's there. And it was a tool that was very useful, you know, because this shit didn't exist 12 years ago, before, like phones really came to a different level. Now you have your credit score in your hand. Remember, it used to be a hard inquiry for you to even know what your shit was. It's like your credit was a secret from you, like you don't fucking know. You know what I'm saying? You don't know. You just gambling. I think I'm good, let me go try to buy a car, you don't know. Two years ago when I tried to get that car, I was like 6'20". You know. But now you have your credit score in your hand give or take, because sometimes it may be not not so accurate, but you have an idea. Your credit karma is usually lower. Yeah, what your credit score is. So if you win like a six higher, no, it's normally lower.

Speaker 1: 21:17

Credit karma is like 40 points off, at least for me. I thought they were saying like Credit Karma is like 40 points more than what your actual, at least what your FICO would be. Nah, it's about less. If that's the case, nigga, I feel really good about myself. 40 points is fucking life changing to me.

Speaker 1: 21:35

Just got our credit pulled for doing hard money loans or the investment properties, and keep in mind this too, like I'm no credit guru so I could be off. But you have a credit, an individual credit score for like a lot of things. An individual credit score for, like finance or insurance, car loans, stuff like that. So when they put our credit for us to get the equity loan, the home loan credit score is 813. Solid 800 Credit score is 813. Solid 800 plus. On Credit Karma, I'm 748. Wow, okay, I don't know. You know that's what I heard, but it's a direct pull from the. You know what I'm saying. It's a direct pull from the TransUnion or whatever. Yeah for sure, that's right.

Speaker 1: 22:19

Credit Karma is like we want you to keep working on your shit. You know what I'm saying. But if you in 700s and Credit Karma, like you probably like 750, 750. Because it's okay, bro, when I get these items off my shit, I ain't about to have y'all all in my business, you know. But when I yo, I like I'm becoming addicted to it. So, like almost to the point to where it's like, you know, like saying I'm hopping on that CK. You know what I'm saying. Like hey, let me see where I'm at and I can't wait because I've done some things this past month where I can't wait to see. Maybe not one month, you know, from now, but you know you're going to update. You know monthly, most of the time when you know shit gets reported, you know what I mean saying. When that account shows up, my uh, you know my credit utilization will go down because I opened a new account. You know what I'm saying? Shit like that.

Speaker 1: 23:07

It's like I want to see and feel how this shit working. Like I told you last week, it's a lot of shit that we only just now learning and even if we learned it five years ago, we're only now implementing a lot of this shit that we learned or having a chance to five years ago. We're only now implementing a lot of this shit that we learned or having a chance to. So I remember and I told you this story last week um, I remember when I was 18, I got a um, I got a loan to go to school.

Speaker 1: 23:35

Um, my mother told me she's like all right, be careful, you treat your credit like gold. That's what she told me, which is like great advice, but no information on how do you treat your credit. Like what does that mean? You know what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, what does that mean, how do I do that? You know I'm saying like what's the what's the tricks of the trade? You know I'm saying like what, what do I need to know? You know. But uh, but getting into this shit, man, I can't wait. Like you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1: 24:06

Like our oldest boys is 12. Yeah, you know, that's a lot closer to adulthood than being babies, right? So I'll tell you this real quick, just with the age thing and learning, just certain credit things and tax things and business things and, like I said, I'm a user of it. I'm not a. I only can give my story. I'm not a person who sells these products or anything like that. Don't judge us. We learning very much. So students of the game, people, students of the game I'm gone, but students of the game, so I did learn little things of of credit.

Speaker 1: 24:41

So now that the boys are well KJ is 12 and Lo is 12, we can be able to put authorized users most definitely on the card, authorized users for the boys on the card, and we can be able to open them up like stock accounts that us as parents still open and manage and things like that, so that we can be able to do that and up to us running a business, we can put up to $12,000 funds like paycheck-style funds for the child, untaxed. Now, don't quote me 100% on that, but that's what I see. We in Ohio, yeah, we in Ohio, we in Ohio, that's one of them accounting conversations Like, hey, you can put your son on there, it might be seven or it might be 12, but it's normally in between there. If like, hey, this can be you know what? I think it is 12 because seven is normally for the uh hsa accounts. That's normally like the health saving account.

Speaker 1: 25:33

So, listen, so like, because we see memes about this and the shit is funny. You ever seen the meme where it's got like a line of children who are clearly like five and under but they got on like construction vests and the caption says when you 18, but your new job, looking for you to have 10 years of experience, you got to start when you like fucking eight. So keep in mind this is why labor laws is in play, because even now, if you go to probably your local Chinese Vietnamese restaurant and maybe even some of the Mexicans, because they need to keep the kids in the back in the Mexican, the Chinese, when you go in there and cook. They got them kids in there cooking and maybe taking your order, but it's like, hey, you need to learn how to function in society now. Yeah, I can't wait 18 years later for you to be like, okay, you've learned enough. But I see that's kind of like their culture.

Speaker 1: 26:27

So let me ask you this when it comes to you know pretty much, being able to put your child on payroll is what you're saying, mm-hmm. So when it comes to that, when it comes to credit not like job history, but credit, because sometimes credit how long you had your job and how much you make it shows that's another part of stability how long you been working there Three weeks. So I'll say this Keep your, keep your spot. If Vanessa and I've been on our jobs 11, 12 years, we may got a credit card that's 15 years old. If we add our child on there as an authorized user, that credit history becomes their credit history Right. So that advances them to be like, okay, we can extend this line of credit after this person or to other people who loan looking for them or this person to start applying. It's like, oh, they probably got so much years of credit.

Speaker 1: 27:13

So we talking about at this point 20, 21 year old black children not getting in over their head but becoming homeowners because they've established credit early, 10 years ago. That's solid, and it's some things that's just not taught to us, man, and that's okay. So this is where we take some days and be like, hey, man, we can talk about everything up under the sun, but the premise is still family man, business man, entrepreneurship. I need my son to know certain things about the world. So this brings me to a conversation we had. Not just the city, the world, the world. Craig, okay, you can't be using the Lord to sell pussy on the corner like that late OF going to probably fade out in about six, seven years. Fuck you, af. So you can't be doing that. So, but he was, we was talking the other day and he was just like asking about money, like you know how to make money.

Speaker 1: 28:05

Yeah, he asked about working at McDonald's. Mcdonald's makes $13, $14 an hour and this was his, this was his mindset. He was like if I were to work there now, you know I wouldn't really like have any money money, he's like. But if I was like a grownup and and I had like bills and I like rent or I like kids. He's like life would be hard if I worked at like mcdonald's. So now we breaking down like layers and leadership and like, hey, man, you can work with me, you'll be like a district manager. He was like I only see the people at the register, you know what I'm saying. But he giving us his story. We now arguing with him.

Speaker 1: 28:46

But he like I'm like okay, so what do you feel like you want to do to make money? He was like well, you know, I want to be an actor. I think I want to do content creating. He was like I want to be like a news anchor. He's like I want to be able to like read. I'm so proud of him. If I'm having a vision of really what he wanted, he can explain to me that. I can see it and I'm like man, this nigga going to be a newscaster. He's got everybody out there in the fucking hurricanes. Back to you, john. Back to you, kj, kj, going to be in studio. Oh yeah, that guy is pretty brave, he's going to be in studio. In studio, oh yeah, that guy is pretty brave, he'll be in studio. And other news hey, good luck to you, john, stay dry. Yeah, but I was proud of that, like okay, okay, cool.

Speaker 1: 29:30

So he was like, well, I can make money doing it. He was like it doesn't look like. It's like hard work, like I can do that, so it's not hard to me. And he was like they're only on TV for like a little while. You know what I'm saying. He's like, but I think they make good money. They got to be popular, nice suits and shit.

Speaker 1: 29:48

He got envisioned out, bro, and I'm just sitting there like, tell me more, man, tell me more. So mom and I, nessa and I, just breaking down to him like you can go work at McDonald's, you can go do anything you want, bro, you have your parents have built options for you. Yeah, you can come work with us, you can come do this. You can go to acting school, you can go to college, you can go to trade school, bro. But I'm like you go to military, you can go anywhere you want. I'm like, but it's things laid out for you. Like right now, man, he got the vending machines for his dad yet, but he working on saving the money. So right now he cutting the grass Remember he cutting grass?

Speaker 1: 30:30

Another proud moment I had of him of he like hey, man, dad, can I cut the grass with you? Before he used to be like do I have to cut the grass? He's like yeah, this just ain't even. I remember telling him I'm sorry. I even gave you a choice. Yeah, go put your shoes on. Come help me cut this goddamn grass. Play shoes, not the new ones I just got. Stop fucking playing, because your mama going to be mad. You shoot the green. You take them shoes. Green man, that's dope man, that's dope man. But learning that man, I can't, just I don't feel good harboring it for myself. So I most definitely feed you like bro.

Speaker 1: 31:08

Hey, man, this is so even on the credit side of things. Pay off the little shit on there that you owe 230 cents. Apply for credit, just apply. You want more money? Apply for it. Hey, in most places you would probably get approved. Yeah, but if you know also, the other part of it is you know, if you know your credit ain't good like if you ain't, if you ain't 650s, you can't just be applying shit, all with it. You're gonna get denied. You're gonna have them inquiries on your credit and the inquiry can drop your credit between like four and seven point, and that's a lot depending on where you at. You know what I'm saying. Now, if you're going to get it, of course it's still going to be your inquiry, but you got the credit. You know what I'm saying? Inquiry, stay on your credit for, I believe, two years, about two years, two years. But if you know your credit ain't good, contractor, go on and apply and don't get in over your head. So that's another part of it. Man, so giving you money without financial literacy or how to spend money, with some management and budgets, you just digging yourself into a hole? Yeah, so I give you this man.

Speaker 1: 32:16

Did you see those people recently that were striking at like the ports? Yeah, I did. Do you know? Most of them, on average, make $102,000 a year. Wow, wow, we in Ohio. That's great money, that's really good money. That's top 1% of the world. Yeah, a lot of people don't recognize that.

Speaker 1: 32:34

When you talk about six figures, yeah, even though six figures can range between $100,000 and $999,000, people don't make that much money. Don't make six figures more at the average, family makes about 655 to 65 000 families. Yeah, don't make six figures. Husband and wife don't make six, even if you are a professional. See. So, for example, you've got some nurses that's doing great and things like that, but they may still only bring home 65 75 000 a year, not including, however, their deductions are, their taxes, their portions of insurance. They may pay all of those things, you know so, but seeing that, like, hey, that company pays each one of them people particularly between like 100k on top of whatever insurance they have, on top of whatever other health benefits they have, retirements, all kind of things for them to, you know to strike.

Speaker 1: 33:26

So I understand the unfair things, but as a businessman, I'd be like, hey, yeah, you see both you. So I say this you striking like that leads way to automation. Leads way to automation, lead a way like hold on, you don't want to work. You know how much money we pay for you to be able to do here, how much we care for you to be here. Remember you making a hundred, something, hundred thousand dollars somewhere in the world, wherever it might be, might not be that much, but we gotta come off of more money because of your life, expect your life expenses. You can't trim no fat. Remember we talking now about trimming fat and we business owners Cut the Netflix. So it's like, hey, bro, all of that, bro, mine is just cutting the Netflix.

Speaker 1: 34:12

I didn't even tell you what I was trimming, but just telling you how I've been saving or having some cushion on applying for credit, making myself attractive and even seeing on the business side of things of like, hey man, the money gotta come from somewhere, from somebody, the clients or whatever it is that you're doing your insurance, your whatever, whatever it is on how you bring the money in. It's almost insulting to the company when you start demanding that shit, yeah, and it's like, hey man, we already shucking out or doing this and doing that on top of already building or keeping up with the masses or whatever it may be to keep you to have your hand out, and it's like, hey, that shit almost disrespectful, yeah, and you know, on top of that, like and I don't even know if you want this out there, but this is just what I know you know, as far as our industry, shout out to therapeutic relations, because on a dsp level, therapeutic relations is paying more than anybody. We're talking larger companies around here, yeah, yeah, where folks ain't tapping into, oh, y'all pay that much really. And in health care industry, uh, freedom speakers, and this may be nationwide, but we're in the state of ohio. Shout out to, uh, cleveland. Shout out to the. Shout out to the Guardians. Shout out to the Browns yeah, we'll talk, you know. Shout out to the Cavs, you know, we always got to listen to that.

Speaker 1: 35:31

But for home health work, direct care caregivers, almost anything that you don't have to have a state license for, such as like state testing, nursing assistant or LPN RN, Most of those range sometimes between on the lower end between maybe $13 to $15 an hour, and then somewhere in the mid or competitive range is somewhere maybe between $15 to $17 an hour. You got some years of experience CPR, first aid, med passing certain things that you need to have to work in the caregiver industry. So we're starting just at $18.50. Okay, $18.50. All the way up to $21 an hour based on years of experience, managerial. Some people, hey, they don't want to work in a stressful nursing home environment anymore, so they still have other credentials. That's why they come in higher. They have other further education.

Speaker 1: 36:29

You know what I'm saying and as an entrepreneur man, I push that shit so much. People got their hand out looking for shit. It's like, hey, you want to make more money, one go either go, go apply for it, go apply for some credit some money at the bank somewhere, somewhere like that. Work more hours at your job, further your education, make yourself better, make yourself an asset. You know I'm saying, or step up in leadership somewhere within your, the company, for responsibility. Those are the quickest ways to be able to make more money.

Speaker 1: 37:00

You gotta sacrifice probably something somewhere, yeah, some time, some energy, but you, you doing it with a purpose, you just not doing it to get by. You got a goal. You know I'm saying that's what? Yeah, man, keep it going, man. So that's just the transparency that I have of it, of like, hey, man, I, I can't be keep being pulled in different directions because life happened to you as it happens to me. That's, that's a, that's a part of the board, that's across the board.

Speaker 1: 37:25

So it's difficult to feel sympathetic towards somebody's personal situation, knowing they will never feel sympathetic towards mine. They won't, they don't have to, they don't have to, and that becomes a mutuality, like I don't have to be sympathetic to that. But because, hey, what we may, it's easy to say the job don't care. It's like, man, your baby daddy should care more. Okay, your spouse should fucking care more. You should choose a better car. You should choose a better fucking spouse. You should choose a better place to fucking live. Choose a better way to spend your goddamn money.

Speaker 1: 38:01

Choose better people that you help to loan shit, that don't get shit back. Like, don't blame the job man, don't do that, nah. And if you ain't got no breathing room of like, got a little bit of credit, a little bit of this. You will save a lot of relationships not having to argue with people about that funky 40-ass dollars that you borrowed. Have a better relationship with the bank. Have the bank be your friend. Freedom speakers. I promise you oh, that's a bar. Had a bank be your friend. I promise you They'll give you a grace period, they'll give you time. They'll even be like hey, you know, they'll help you consolidate your shit. Yeah, they give you good advice. Remember, it's still their job to get so many accounts open, so many, everything open, so many, everything open.

Speaker 1: 38:42

Man, and I learned that from my dude Dat, my dude Dat, my dude Dat Gotta say the whole thing, the Cree. He's high alumni man. He would feed me information, man, about the bank. And I'm just asking like hey, bro, this is where I'm sitting at, man, what do I need to do First thing? He used to always say, like man, make yourself attractive, make yourself fucking attractive. Pay off shit, start gaining some assets, put some shit into an IRA, but just little shit that helps you leverage later on in life. You know what I'm saying. So I'm like I would listen to women. I would try to find me a banker and find you multiple banks. Remember it's still competition within the banks. Who's your favorite bank Right now? I like Hard Money Lending. Right now I like Harmony Linden. Right now I like Harmony Linden. I like Harmony Linden. Pause, pause. But I got really good relationships with Huntington. I got really good relationships with PNC. One of the branch managers at the PNC where I live, scott.

Speaker 1: 39:43

Shout out to Scott, I don't know if this is for the show or not, but he introduced me into a networking group of all these other great professional individuals who I really needed to tap back into now and build further relationships, especially in the other entrepreneurial direction that I'm going. But these are people who all practice certain levels of business that it's like, hey, I need to level up my life, but just humbly practicing. Everybody does real estate. Everybody owns something Two, three apartments or you know, I got some tenants I got to evict. Can you help me write up something? I'll file it for you. But it's like, damn everybody just attractive in their own way of what they bringing and what they doing.

Speaker 1: 40:24

But when I would go, they would all kind of be all at me and I'll be telling them like, hey, this is what I'm doing, this is what I got going on, blah, blah, blah, woo, woo, woo, this, that woo, woo. And they'd just be sitting there like, wow, man, you're fucking incredible. Man, this is incredible. But Sky built up this persona of me, of me just telling him like, hey, man, this is what I'm doing in business. This is what I think of the team I'm on staff. This is what I'm trying to push and produce. This is what I think of the clients. This is what we do. We're in health care. We actually give a fuck. We're at therapy. Yeah, we care. Nice, we do it, we do it, we do it.

Speaker 1: 40:59

People will want to help you because of your passion of what. They didn't even see my money. They didn't care about the money at the bank. They got all of it there. Okay, they, like you, ain't got that much money. Nigga you here asking for money, all right, so, but it was like hey, I'm going to introduce you to some other people that can help put you where you want to go. Yeah, I want to help you. And that's what it's about, man. That's what it's about Like, hey, I want to help you. It ain't what you know, it's who you know.

Speaker 1: 41:27

So shout out to Scott at PNC Bank, at Berea Branch. I'll be to the networking group, probably this week. There you go. Solid man, solid. Hey. Let's take a quick commercial break and we're going to move into sports. For sure, bro, that was for sure bro. So that was solid though, man. But that was the. That was the ted talk on fun. Yeah, for sure. Hey, that was, that was great. You can cut this little shit out, but that was great, that was fucking great. So both of our teams took a l.

Speaker 1: 41:56

Hold on, let's not start this off like that. Okay, all right, because let's go, guardians, let's go. I, let's go. I'm so fucking proud. Hold up. What time is game one?

Speaker 1: 42:07

Game one is today. Hold up, y'all. We might have to go. Wait a minute, hold up. Shout out to the guards. Man we took out. Detroit came back. The series started looking ugly. Oh, they come on at 738 tonight. Okay, not 730. 7 tonight, okay, not 7.30. 7.38. 7.38. Hey, that's very precise. Alright, this my one F-bomb for the day. Fuck the Yankees, okay, them goddamn Yankees, some Yankees, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, this the matchup I wanted, you know, and we can take them, man, we can take them. They got man, new York got some bats, but we got some balls. Balls, now, that means you know hitters and pitchers, you know baseball talk. But hey, man, let's go, let's go. Guards, man, I'll be watching, I'll be watching man. So definitely, good luck to the guardians. Man, permission to speak freely. We behind you, we staying with you. And let's go, let's go, baby, let Buckeye.

Speaker 1: 43:04

It was Ohio State Buckeye, allegedly a $20 million roster that was paid through NIL to get good players retain good players. A lot of our seniors and juniors who were draft eligible came back Like, hey, man, we got to beat Michigan, we ain't got no Big Ten title, we ain't got no championship, we going to leave like this, hell, no, we coming, we're coming back and we're about to get it done. We go out there. Bucks versus ducks, man had a night. You know. Hey, it's a good ring to it. I've heard about the.

Speaker 1: 43:41

You know we had to fly to oregon, man, that's clear across the country. And hey look, I ain't here to make no excuses, man. I thought and this is what I know, man, they left on Friday. They left on Friday. Games on Saturday, 7.30 pm our time. That's 3.30 Oregon time. West Coast time, pacific. Let's be specific, pacific to be specific. I feel like they should have left on Thursday. Get more of the jet lag out, you know, but you got, hey, man, you got Chip Kelly over there, you know. Or give advice, man, go ahead, leave on Friday. It is what it is, man. We go out there.

Speaker 1: 44:19

First series man looking pretty decent man. I will be honest. If there's any Oregon fans out there, yes, that was an interception. Yeah, if there's any Oregon fans out there, yes, that was an interception. Yeah, I'm with y'all. I don't have you know what I'm saying fan goggles. Oh, no, no, it wasn't. No, that was a pick. That was a pick, it was. You know what I'm saying. I thought it would have been, but hey, I was happy it wasn't called a pick. Let's move on. Bucks, looking good, looking good, getting decent man.

Speaker 1: 44:48

Second drive man, we get out there. We fumble, you know, lose momentum, you know a 7-7, man. But back and forth game. You know what I'm saying? The Ducks man, they miss a field goal, they go for two a little further down the line. They don't get that. So that's two points, three points left off the board. But we talking about powerhouse versus powerhouse. Yeah, we talking about, you know, an unstoppable force Meeting an immovable object. Yeah, that's what we saw On Saturday night. That's why the score was, that's why it was so Back and forth. Oh, they up, now we up, they up, now, we up, they up, now we up, they up, now we trying to get up.

Speaker 1: 45:27

And there was some poor clock management, if you ask me, by coach day at the end of the game. I understand we was in good, good position, good field position. I understand that. The confidence in the team. It's like hey, you know, are we going for the touchdown when we just need a field goal? But let's try to make this thing as close as possible.

Speaker 1: 45:44

We had three timeouts, at least close as possible. We had three timeouts, at least two, but I believe we had three timeouts going into that drive when it got to, because in college they have a two-minute warning. Now they called it the two-minute timeout, but it's a two-minute warning. Now we have three timeouts, but we're just letting the clock go and go and go. We're, however, far down, you know what I'm saying, but we're just letting the clock go and go and go. Will Howard fall down? You know what I'm saying? Okay, that's a sack. Now we got to, you know.

Speaker 1: 46:11

Oh, my goodness, the stadium man, buckeye fans man, we got to get louder when we out there in our field because that 12th man you know what I'm saying it matters, it's a factor. If the offensive line receivers, if they can't hear the snap count, they got to be looking at the ball and waiting, but if they think they hear something, they didn't. Was that one, was that two, because the crowd is so loud. You know what I'm saying. On top of, I'm pretty sure it's illegal to pump crowd noise into the stadium through, like the speakers and I'm not saying Oregon do that. But it get loud, it get loud.

Speaker 1: 46:49

I was at a Buckeyes game early this season and it got loud, it got loud. We putting up it got louder, putting up 93 decibels or whatever. But like yo, like we can, really, let's shake this up. Let's shake this up, man. But ultimately we took the L. However, ultimately we took the L. However, I'm proud of my team. I'm a Buckeyes fan.

Speaker 1: 47:08

I got to tell you, bro, I got the Brutus, the Buckeye, in my man cave. You hooked it up now. Oh shit, hang on, I'm going to show you real quick. I'm going to show you real quick. My man got the Brutus. I went over to Giant Eagle to get because I made chili, shit was bomb. And I saw him sitting over by the Diet Cokes and shit. I'm like damn, that brood is going to look good in my bathroom. And he got the big ass brood. Oh, yeah, he's like four feet. No, he's like 5'10". Oh, he's standing from the ground. You know how my windows? Yeah, he's on the ground, he's all the way on the ground. He's about like 5'11", 6 feet, solid on the ground. He by like five, six feet. I like that man.

Speaker 1: 47:46

So after I get my little stuff, man, I go to the. I'm about to leave and I say, excuse me, sir, are you the manager? He's like no, but I can get him for you. I said no, you might be able to answer my question. So it's a really cool. You know what I'm saying. Oh, those things get smashed up and compressed and sent to someone. So I'm like, can I have it? Can I rescue this brood? Can I have it? Uh, he's like, yeah, when we're done with it, I see no reason why we can take your number. You call the other manager over there. He's like, yeah, leave your name and number, we'll give you a call. And they end up calling me during the end of the guardians game, like, hey, yeah, I spoke to what was his name? Oscar spoke to oscar. He, you know, we had it long enough so you can come and get it. I'm like, hey, I'll be there right after the Guardians get this win For sure and winning.

Speaker 1: 48:31

Guy Brutus, man, put him in the trunk. You know what I'm saying. Love went with it. We brought him on home.

Speaker 1: 48:36

Man, my wife saw that shit. She like, because freedom speakers, man, y'all ain pretty nice. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you asked me, and there's some. You know there's some. I really like your man k, because the shit is really like a cave. It's outside. You gotta go do some shit to get there.

Speaker 1: 48:57

You know I'm saying yeah, and we're here. You know I'm saying it's secretive, it's a way it's off to the side where my shit you know. But but it's, I put it together. You still ain't seen the way I organized. No, no, no, I'll be coming through for some whiskey and cigars, but ultimately, man, ohio state, we took the l? Um. I don't believe in moral victories. Come on, we got a 12 team playoff. Now we'll be fine, we'll be fine. You know what I'm saying. We're going to beat Penn State, we're going to beat Michigan and we're going to move into the Big Ten. You know title, with one loss and maybe Ohio State, oregon again. We'll see, we'll see. And I wish we was playing them again like today, because I believe we'll win.

Speaker 1: 49:45

They was doing like little tricky shit. You know what I'm saying. Ohio State Pretty much until the last drive, we was pretty much Scoring that wheel. Besides a fumble, you know what I'm saying, besides a. Did we throw an interception In that game? I'm not sure, but we was marching down the field Like, head up, playing football. Playing football, oregon. They go to Kick the ball. They end up hitting the blocker right in the chest. Oh, now they got the ball back. It was more like an onside kick in the middle of the game. You know what I'm saying? A little funny, little tricky shit.

Speaker 1: 50:15

Oregon was doing, respectfully, players head up, though. Yeah, yeah, yeah, head up, without the funny shit we was marching down the field. You know what I'm saying. We got to get. We got to get pressure on the quarterback. I don't know, jim knows he ain't really been a fan of really pressuring the quarterback, like really getting up in his mouth. Pause, you know I'm saying he's been more so like pressuring from the outside and force him to stay in the pocket and stuff like that. It's kind of like no man, like smack these niggas in the mouth, right, right, like like do that send the message? Like do that? Let's get aggressive, let's really shake them up, and we just haven't been doing that over the last couple of years. But we took the L man. Shout out to the Ducks man. They did their thing.

Speaker 1: 50:57

I ain't mad, but I hope we see y'all again, be it a Big Ten championship or a playoff or a playoff or a playoff. So we shall see. Man, at least we didn't go out there and lose to Vanderbilt. Shout out to Alabama. God damn, yeah, I caught the last of that game. Yeah, tennessee lost to Arkansas last week. That was crazy. Hey, we can lose to Oregon. If Alabama can lose to Vanderbilt and Tennessee can lose to Arkansas. We can lose to Oregon Another great team, arkansas. We can lose to Oregon. Another great team. We can lose to a great team if they can lose to. You know what I'm saying? The minions of college football. They called the who. The minions, the minions of college football, shout out to them, man, good schools.

Speaker 1: 51:38

You got anything to touch on when it comes to that game, man, did you watch? Yeah, I watched a little bit of it, man, but this past weekend I was actually, I actually went to, we was in Detroit. We went to go see the Jasmine Sullivan and October London and Maxwell concert, which actually was a pretty impressive concert. I felt real baller. For a second man, tell us. I got us some tickets, some floor seats and I didn't really recognize. I'm not really good at purchasing, I'm not a purchaser but I cargo through. Recognize, I'm not really good at purchasing, like I'm not a purchase stuff, but I, like the car, go through, but I'm not, you know, good at knowing like best seating in certain places. You know I'm saying so. When we got to the arena, um, you know, we, I'm showing on the phone like hey, where's our, where's our seats, where our seats? And they kept me in like, oh yeah, you guys are down, you guys are down.

Speaker 1: 52:24

So I took nessa on the date. We dated in Detroit the weekend. I took her on the date and we got there Thursday and we ate some wings and stuff from a local spot, but then Friday we got a, took her to breakfast a place called the Jacket Fort, took her shopping and we got. We went back to the hotel, we got dressed, we went to the concert that night. Then we went after the concert. We tried to find a place to eat. Only thing that was open was, like the TGI Fridays, so we got some drinks and food from there and then, you know, went back to the room Saturday.

Speaker 1: 52:55

We flicking through channels, but we really flicking each other. I'm flicking her beans, she flicking my pain, and we enjoying each other Flicking pain, each other Flicky paint, so, but we dating. So I did catch some of the game, but I was, you know, playing with the joystick. Life gave me, you know, and the air controllers. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1: 53:13

I feel that, man, hey, that's the only buck you was trying to get. Yeah, I was trying to buck a nut in my day is, though, freedom speakers, um, and this is mainly to the men. For sure, you know, I'm most definitely want to make sure that I give, I direct the information to to the men hey, man, step up a little bit on your game of how you treat your woman. You know, I'm saying I get to hear a lot of times some of the men they be like real whiny, yeah, a little bit of like how they not getting certain things from their girl, and that comes that.

Speaker 1: 53:47

But I've learned from my own shit. When you almost too nice, my nigga, when you just like I was hoping and praying I could get some punani, yeah, it's one of them. Like uh, nigga, what? Uh, compared to like hold on, nigga, what you doing, I ain't waiting. And you just kind of muscling a little bit, like hey, hey, hey, hey, this is spontaneous, but be more of yourself, take more charge, take more lead man, you know what no mean. So, hey, if you push the envelope and she like, oh, no man, I'm cool. Or you, oh, okay, a little too dirty, A little too dirty, a little too much, okay, but I had to learn and it might not work for everybody, but I suggest, like no man get, hey man, a lot of these niggas out here ain't got girlfriends anyway. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's what I heard. They ain't got girlfriends, or they? I say this man, this was one of the things they was saying.

Speaker 1: 54:41

I was called sassy. They was, it's like you sassy. Who the fuck called you sassy? Some little random bitch that I called that's my second F-bomb of the day Some little random bitch I called ma'am. I'm like hold on, ma'am isn't a fish Like you guess my gender. So she called you sassy because you called her ma'am and she evidently was a bitch. That's what you ain't even deserve. That you assumed my gender.

Speaker 1: 55:06

You got titties poking out that motherfucking shirt and it ain't fat sack titties. That's wild man. Them titties. That's wild. I'm like man. Okay, what's she, what's she? Were they a transgender? I don't want to guess again, I don't fucking know man, but it was one of them like. So you really got it. So she's like you're being sassy.

Speaker 1: 55:29

I'm like, cause I got an esteem for myself for a second. How they about to let you just say any bullshit to me. That's wild. I'm gonna chill that shit out, young sir. Like man, sir, chill that shit the fuck out. That's wild man. But it's shit like that. I. I didn't even take offense to it. It was more so funny.

Speaker 1: 55:44

But I'm like, oh, thank you, man. I'm like, oh, damn, I'm like, just take it and shut the fuck up. You know what? I can't even say that though, because I'd be sorry. You know, I have very handsome boys, and when they were younger they may be mistaken for being little girls, even though they got on a blue coat and a bunch of dinosaur shit on it. Yeah, ain't no princess, you know fairy tales. It's the pile eyelashes man to get him. So I guess I can understand. Man, oh, she's so pretty. He's like. He said thank you, thank you, right, yeah, so I get it. Man, you know, freedom, we're not here. We're not here to be judging stuff.

Speaker 1: 56:21

Yeah, I was just shocked of like, hey, man, this is getting real loose with words. I ain't had to trip on you like that, though. First off, I'm sassy because you're not a sir. Yeah, you're not a man, that's just wild. I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like as man as it gets. What are you talking about? I'm like, man, you know what? Can you just bag up my wine, please? Yeah, that's wild. So I ain't trip on that too much, but it was, is, is, when I was called sassy. It made me look at it like hold on first off, nigga I'm that's just a new insulting word people use now I don't really think niggas are sassy or men are sassy.

Speaker 1: 56:54

I feel like men have an esteem for themselves and they speaking up. So now you saying something about yourself. You could get called sassy for arguing with a chick who wants to argue. You sassy, you arguing with a chick, that's what you say. Because you're losing, because you're losing, you bitch. You baited me in, are you mad? You just don't want me to say shit. There's some people who live for chaos, they live for drama, they live for that shit. Man, yeah, man, I can't do it, man, so I try my best.

Speaker 1: 57:22

And this is to men hey, when that woman, your woman, get to kind of just yapping sometimes just look at her ass funny, like just look at her dare her eye funny. When she get to like talking bullshit, then pull your dick out and start jacking off. You will shut down the argument quick, quick. You will shut down the argument quick. And for ladies, you want your man to stop motherfucking, yapping, pull his shit out and get the. And, trust me, you will not only calm that man the fuck down.

Speaker 1: 57:56

You might get that credit card if it ain't delinquent. You won, you won. He'll give you that $237. Yeah, yeah, who are you supposed to owe? You owe Sprint from back when you was in high school. Hey, bro, that was one of them motherfuckers on my credit. Like, hey, I owe Sprint, sprint, oh, time Warner, cable, them niggas don't even exist. They defunct like a motherfucker, bro. Now you overriding. Now they bought them niggas. Yeah, yeah, I think they did get soaked up. I love sprinting Sprint. Stop running, nigga, stop sprinting, for sure, man.

Speaker 1: 58:31

So Freedom Speakers, we're here to bring you information on family, man, businessman, entrepreneurship, what it is in the average man's daily life, of how we think, how we operate. We're here to give information to the men, to the women, but most definitely for the men. It's like, hey, bro, sharpen up a certain way. Yeah, because we, yeah, we here, we got to do better, but what you think overall? Because we on social media now you know what I'm saying. So we get a, we get an idea of what manhood is looking like across the board. You know what I'm saying. And not all of us represent well. Not all of us represent well man. We got women taking care of us. You know what I'm saying. Driving her car. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1: 59:15

I'm hearing like dudes ain't got they own cribs no more. That's what I'm hearing out there. I'm glad you said that. Yeah, man, talk to us. I mean, we got to tighten up, right For sure. So I got some questions. Yeah, okay, I got some shit that I wrote down to Freedom Speakers Bear with me, but I got some things that I feel like for the men most definitely like hey, what is some shit that men need to really make themselves desirable? Credit, okay, money for sure. Money, motherfucker for sure. Money, motherfucker For sure. You need the bands, bitch, you need the bands. Alright, so I got some shit. Let me try to Make sure I find it, man, but A couple of the things that we did talk about man One is so here go five things that every man need.

Speaker 1: 1:00:03

Okay, five things Every man need. Let me get my pen One, and I come from a different time frame, man. So one first thing you're going to need is some hustle and some money about yourself. You're going to need to get out there and get you some money. The money will be the muscle. Get in your purpose. Okay, the money will be the muscle of hey, I need to make some shit move. I need to make some shit happen. I need to make some shit happen. I got to keep grinding, I got to show some hard work, some dedication. You getting you some money that's going to be able to get some shit moving.

Speaker 1: 1:00:32

Two Nigga get you a means of transportation. Get you somewhere to be able to go. You can kick it with the ladies a little bit. You can be like hey, I can meet you at this bar, I can meet you at this hotel, I can meet you at Joe's spot. You know, whatever it may be, get you a means of transportation. Okay, after that. My nigga three get you a tool bag. Every nigga need a tool bag, bro.

Speaker 1: 1:00:54

If you got a car, not just say that like what kind of tool we talking here. So I would suggest to get you just a general tool bag. Man, you got you some pliers in there, flathead screwdriver, for sure, for sure, I'm with you Some sockets. You know what I'm saying. But if you got you a car you gonna probably need on your own shit. Okay, just trying shit, but that makes you become a problem solver. Like this nigga can problem, solve some shit.

Speaker 1: 1:01:20

Yeah, man, I remember when I was in high school, man, I'm over at the showroom apartment and I'm like you know, 16, 17,. You know, little bathroom doorknob was a little jiggly you know what I'm saying and I was able to. Of course, I didn't have my shit, but you know, there was a screwdriver nearby and I was able to tighten that up, man, and I was thanked. I was thanked. I don't know what our mama thought. Who fixed this? I did how she thank you, bro, help me with my own one Got an A on my English. I want to thank you. I got an A.

Speaker 1: 1:01:58

Okay, man, so we got three things so far. First, get you a job, some money. That most definitely get you the muscle. Two, get you a liable car, some transportation. Yeah. Three would be you know too bad, be able to have you fix on your shit. Like you say some shit, do something. Four would be like this is the game changer. Four is get you your own place.

Speaker 1: 1:02:21

I feel like every man should live on his own for some experience some time in his life. Two, three, four years, live on his own, get to learn his self-hands with each level of these things that you step up with bro, you attract a different style of woman. You know what I'm saying. I go to number five, that you step up with bro, you attract a different style of woman. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. So I go to number five and then I'm going to piece them all together. For sure we're listening, man, the women that are attracted to these men who have these things. All right. So five would be you got to have some style to yourself, be able to dress, maybe a personality, funny, something along those lines that is like, hey, I can entertain this woman, I can keep her attention beyond just buying her things. Yeah, you know I'm saying. So.

Speaker 1: 1:03:05

That's five things I'm gonna recap to me. One had you a good job, some money can bring you in the bag. Two, uh, had you a reliable car transportation? You can uber anywhere, if you can get there. Three have you, uh, a tool bag? You fixing on shit? You can you everywhere, motherfucker, if you can get there. Three have you a tool bag? You fixing on shit? You can. You can craft, you can hang up pictures and shit in our house. While you knocking down walls, you hanging shit up on. You know what I'm saying? Mirrors and shit, mirrors and shit, like I'm gonna hit you from the back from this nice mirror I just put up. You got from Gabe, you know, you got your own spot. You can be like hey, man, come on over to me. Oh girl, light some candles. Baby, come on over to my place and you ain't got to worry about nothing.

Speaker 1: 1:03:50

You know, go to the number five, okay, okay. And the number five is add, I use some style of some sort, you'll be able to dress. You got a good personality. You know you're funny, man, you're charismatic, you know all these things help play for that woman to be like okay, I can be funny, I can fuck with that. Or just on the third man.

Speaker 1: 1:04:12

So the women who are mostly attracted to these things, all right, that woman who so I'll go to number one, the woman who see that man that got a job that got a little bit of money. He might be. She see him with a work uniform on. You might like that. That woman might be looking like hey, that nigga got dirty nails, he got a work uniform on. He at the grocery store, you know what I'm saying? He need a bitch to cook for him, because that come down to life skills, for sure, for sure.

Speaker 1: 1:04:35

So this is the opportunity that most women, a lot of niggas, just don't know how to shop. Yeah, don't know how to shop. Or they go to the corner store, not the grocery store. Yeah, most of the Dollar General be having bread, buying Takis and shit. Nigga, get a meal, nigga, yeah. Yeah, blue Bonnie, that's what's a domesticated type of thing. Man Like, hey, so you got you a little job, you're making you some money, but you're like, hey, you might not know how to cook something, too much you can. A woman will see that. Some women will see that like, oh, yeah, he start cooking up something to eat. I press his work clothes for him and he come home with a boom, boom, boom. You will attract certain women like that. That's attracted to a man that get up and go to work. You know, know, I'm saying so.

Speaker 1: 1:05:15

Then the next man you got the you know that, that dude who got the reliable car, you can always have some women who into cars. It can be classic car, you got transportation. You come pick her up. It could be almost anything you're gonna have. Hey, he can come get me, don't matter, kind of what it is. Yeah, he, you know, as you get older, man, you can't be pulling up. You know boo, boo, it can't be, it can't, can't be pulling up, it can't be not reliable, it can't not be reliable.

Speaker 1: 1:05:42

I got to say something man, go ahead, because I like this list. I like this list a lot and I think that list you know, like everything. You know one thing I say hey, gentlemen, you got to have at least at minimum, at minimum, three solid meals. That you know you can blaze the shit. Yeah, I'm about to make her the so-and-so Three specials. Nigga, you got to have at least minimum three specials, all right.

Speaker 1: 1:06:06

But I'm going to say this man about that list man, these ladies out here don't want that dude you just described Word. They don't want him. They don't want the nigga who, on his own shit, he corny, he corny, he corny. He go to work. He got shit together. He know how to treat him. She don't want him. She don't want him, almost kind of like Bruh. They want these days, man, these days, the dating pool got piss and shit in it. Ask around, ask around, freedom Speakers. Yo, what fecal matter have you seen? They don't want him. They don't want him. Man, he's taking care of business man. They see that.

Speaker 1: 1:06:42

Yeah, you call Sassy for pushing the cart. Nah, you gay, you pushing the cart, bitch, I'm about to get $130 worth of groceries. Bitch, should I call you poor for using stamps? Excuse my language, but nah, man, we in competition with the guy who really don't want nothing for himself, the guy who you know, she got to go get him. You know what I'm saying. She got to go get him. He ain't really got. He bouncing around jobs, man, and we know somebody like that and we're not here to shit on him. And we're not here to shit on him.

Speaker 1: 1:07:20

But you know that man is not forced, or even like just subconsciously pressured, to get his shit together. You know why? Because he getting pussy anyway. Getting pussy anyway. He getting pussy anyway. Ladies, you got a job to do. You want men to be better. Stop giving pussy to the scrub.

Speaker 1: 1:07:37

Unqualified men don't deserve pussy. Because when you give unqualified niggas pussy, it blends the group of the niggas who deserve pussy. It blends it in. You don't know who you should be fucking Now. You got to take care of him. You know what I'm saying. Now he done. Next thing, you know, you gave the nigga a drawer and a toothbrush Now he live here. Now he a toothbrush Now he live here. Now he live here. Now he live here Now.

Speaker 1: 1:08:03

Look, we ain't talk. Look, listen to me. We came a long way. We came a long way. Now listen to me, because we got to put these different levels to this shit. We not talking about the, you know, the 20, the 20 to 24 year old. I was going to say 25. We ain't talking about the 20 to 24 year old. That's the time where you might have to sling some pins. Hey, man, I got to eat. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. I got to eat and I got to eat.

Speaker 1: 1:08:26

But at some point, where does the motivation kick in to get your shit together? If you're getting everything you want from a woman and you getting your shit excused? Yeah, like you playing a violin for this bitch? Yeah for sure. Oh, you know he's like come on, I can help him, I can save him, I can change him. He need me. I got it. So, but when? But after 25, when will it kick in? If you're like, man, I ain't trying to fuck with me, where, when is the motivation?

Speaker 1: 1:09:01

Because throughout time, way, beginners of humanity, the motivation for men to get out there and make something happen. You know I'm saying was I want some pussy, I want some. You know, that's that's what it is. So but if he, but if he getting it, if the ladies, it's like I'm gonna mess with him anyway, cause he got a, he got a hog on him. You know, you know what I'm saying. But hey, bro, I gotta, I gotta take care of you, I gotta you can't even buy some pasta in this bitch, yeah, yeah. So I'll say this man, you can't, you can't put. You know what I'm saying. Like, you know, take care of that, take care of that Rent for a couple more years. I went on down to the office and paid Apartment three on. Yeah, I went on and, you know, paid it for next month. So we ain't got it.

Speaker 1: 1:09:46

So, freedom speakers, when we talking strictly to them, men, for a second man, talk to these ladies. I'm going to them too. Logo said I'm gonna talk to them too. But I want to, I want to get a game to the men first of like, hey, you, you uh ain't no c like I mean, I ain't, I don't care what the relationship is, man or going with the flow, man, because most women you're gonna hear say they don't, we just go with the flow. He the man I want to lead, that's fine. Hey, ain't no c cell without navigation, my nigga, it's a fact. So we can be going with the flow, but we going this way, all right, we going over here.

Speaker 1: 1:10:21

So I always step to that man first, like hey, man, I ain't telling you to be disrespectful, but I'm telling you to let some nuts hang. Make some decisions, man, put some things into play. Sometimes you just got to do it. I ain't met too many women who haven't chunked up and said well, he, the man I was just following him, compared to you, got some of the women, as you stated, they feel like they got to take the direction because he isn't, and then mad at the man that they can't direct because he already know where he going. You can't fool him, you can't make him believe you invented him because he know what he is. That's a fact. Yeah, this is true.

Speaker 1: 1:11:00

So that man that, as you stated, man, the woman used to be the prize and be the motivation of why that man got up every day. And then, when they built children, they amplified the signal of not only do I need to house and take care of my woman, which is a braggadocious thing to men of, like hey, I can make life easy for you. Compared to you and the kids, compared to that woman got to be working double and triple shifts or very indecisive. And I know you gave the numbers of like 20 to 25, bro, I go like even to 27. Some niggas is late bloomers, but at that point let's say at 25, you got to have a little spark, like all right, because at the moment when you realize it's gonna take some time for you to like put shit in the play, you know what I'm saying. So when you hit that 25th birthday, like that night, something gotta click. That frontal lobe developed. Now it's time to go.

Speaker 1: 1:11:54

You can't, you can't. You can't blame mommy and daddy, not at all. You can't, can't hold them accountable for your own decisions, especially if you out here making moves on your own, you standing up in your own decisions. You feel me. So I understand the different roles of that man having to grow himself. But I fully agree with you Like, hey, bro, gotta something gotta go off. You can't be living on on past hype, not at all. You can't be. You can't be living off of you know old dreams. You can't be um, what's the movie? Napoleon dynamite? You can't be, uh oh, like the uncle. Yeah, yeah, I used to throw a football a quarter mile.

Speaker 1: 1:12:36

You know that you don't think, but it's one of my hey man and I try to walk myself. Well, I say this too. I try to walk in a place where I show humility, yeah, but I also know I'm in a place where I'm one of the only few men that's really doing certain shit. Yeah, so when I speak, I expect you to hear, but I don't like to. Even though I like to talk, I don't like to repeat my motherfucking stuff. I don't like repeating myself. I don't like repeating my motherfucking stuff. I don't like explaining none of that shit. I'm not about to explain this shit to you. You know what I'm saying. This is what I said, this is what it's about to be. This, what it's about to be, this is this is, yeah, simple. I don't even want to say it again for y'all. Yeah, not, not at all.

Speaker 1: 1:13:23

So learning that if, like hey man, I didn't gave information, I didn't doing this and doing that, I'm not in a place of repeating. I don't even like having to repeat myself to my children, though I know is I got to, yeah, but that's stressful enough. It's like, have I not proven to you? And even when I talk about like me becoming like a credit head, a credit head, it's motivation, because I got a wife and kids. You know what I'm saying. If anything, it's for them. Maybe if I didn't have that, would I have that same motivation. I got to get my shit together. I want to make sure my kids know this shit that I'm learning early. You know what I'm saying. That's the motivation. And me being man that's the motivation.

Speaker 1: 1:13:55

Me being like, hey, man, me and my wife, we want to make some moves. Let me make myself more financially attractive. You know, be it to her or the bank, you know what I'm saying. It's like, hey, hey, babe, look, hey, we got this. We ain't got to worry about that. You know what I'm saying On a date. So like, yeah, take you out somewhere. Or like, think about, like, trading your car. We'll probably get you something a little better. Hey, let me ask you this when you and wifey go on like dates where you take her out or she take you out, do you expect to get some cutty? Yes, okay, okay, I just wanted to make sure that just went me, even though I got to check, bro, because, hey, I ain't going to lie.

Speaker 1: 1:14:31

Lately, nigga, I've been meeting like a mother for a year. Hey, that shit work. So I can't say it work for everybody, but, like, kind of, I learned this too. Fellas, fellas, fellas, fellas, fellas. Okay, don't forget to talk to the lady, don't forget to talk to her or talk her through it.

Speaker 1: 1:14:46

All right, so I've learned, hey, after you do you get you some pussy and you play it nonchalant, play it like oh, that was just another task, fucking you. Good, that, nigga, that ain't, that's a walk in the park, bitch, it's a walk in the park. Let me go cut this motherfucking grass. You was a task. I love you, but you was a task, and then I'll. I'll drift off into other shit. If, like, I ain't pressing for the pussy cause, then it kinda be like hey, that nigga done left me on some wonder, nigga done did this? Sucked hoes, booty holes, flicked beans, everything. It did Everything to me.

Speaker 1: 1:15:23

Then nigga got up and turned on the game. Nigga went in the garage, smoke break listening to shit and he's like hold on, you ain't about to hold me, you ain't tired. All right, on to the next task. Baby, I put the work in with you With just one of them I find with me, maybe with just me, and my drive is high. Don't give away the game. I like to do my thing, I like to show off in there.

Speaker 1: 1:15:50

If I can Just admit hey, you good, you good, okay. If you're going to brag, brag about that, talk about that shit, or amongst your motherfucking friends or girls, hey, you ain't got certain problems. You can't relate Like, hey, man, you got issues with certain shit with us. But it's certain like, hey, you ain't got certain issues like them. Yeah, you ain't got issues like them, okay. So it's one of them like, hey, you goddamn right, you can't agree.

Speaker 1: 1:16:20

I don't know, bitch, because the king I don't. I don't know because my husband, my man, my man, be that nigga, be like my man does. Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, so what you say? How much I can't build? Like I don't know. So I'll say this too. Just on business man, uh, the cable bill is one of them. Things like we was talking about, like just bringing that up. That reminded me freedom speakers.

Speaker 1: 1:16:43

I, I, as I pushed this financial thing and I even pushed this heavy, especially on um. I seen on social media for a while back it used to be as heavy, heavy debate of the men paying all the bills and that's the only way, kind of like that nigga get respect from the woman is if he, like he, just cashing out on her living. And I feel like as a man and I say this as a man who pay all of our bills in our household that's not a flex, that's the hey, my wife was in the hospital, so her coming off a payroll to be able to, you know, like nigga she, she coming off a payroll to be able to, you know, like nigga she giving birth to our baby and she almost nine. Why the fuck does she need to be worried about a light bill? Why the fuck she need to be worried about utilities and shit. So it's not a braggadocious, it's like no, this is for our lifestyle. So me paying the bills in the home the same as I do for the business, it's a different log in.

Speaker 1: 1:17:34

I find it very disgusting as fuck when women be so quick to want to just relinquish responsibility of themselves to a man so they don't gotta take care of themselves. Rushing for marriage or rushing for or. Oh, I only respect him if he make this amount of money, or we do this and do this Like hey, as a person in that tax bracket bitch, we not looking for you, we not looking for you. That's the shit. We not fucking looking for you, exactly, and that's what they don't understand. You not looking for you, you just going to get them because you want them.

Speaker 1: 1:18:02

You understand, first of all, you have to meet them. What's the odds of you meeting them? Where are you at that this? You know what I'm saying. It's like it's so, before we took our little break on the permission to speak podcast, we would talk about mr kevin samuels a lot, and what he was basically talking about is okay, woman, what are the odds of you even meeting that man? And, on top of that, what are the odds of him even wanting you back? You understand that has to happen. Right, he's not a. He's not an item on the shelf that you just pick up whenever it's not gonna happen. So, okay. So you want this man. You know, know you want six foot, six figure, six inches, all that, anyway, six pack, they can handle All that shit. What are you doing to make yourself attractive to him? Then they sit like this. I wait, you know what I'm saying. They don't got much and much and nothing man.

Speaker 1: 1:19:00

So most men who sit in hierarchy positions or career gentlemen okay, he could be the manager at the motherfucking save a lot. He could be at the manager at the bank. Nigga, he could be running, we could be jeff bezos. All of these men are hardwired the same. Okay, that don't matter the genre of the man the hood nigga, the nerd, the street nigga, the business nigga, the creative nigga. If he can't problems off, he ain't got a fucking tool bag. If he ain't got reliable transportation, if the nigga can't got some style to his self or whatever, like, hey, nigga, you just got a man, you ain't got a man. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1: 1:19:40

And as men, we pride ourselves on how, like our skills. I feel like as a man, when a challenge comes is when I get to demonstrate what the fuck I am like. Oh, until the end. Bitch, we styling and profiling, we kicking it. Yeah, it's like, do I, do I? How off, how much do I have to straight up be when you say, like the definition of a man, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1: 1:20:01

Well, women sometimes think they get confused and only a man can give a man a definition of a man. You know what I'm saying. So, like, damn, do I got to be hard all the fucking time? Can I just chill? Can I just relax? Can I be cool? Can I be understanding? Can I be compassionate? You know what I'm saying? Can I be funny? He's assy because he understand me. All right, bitch, what do you want? What do you want? He's sus because he nice to me. All right, but I'm going to slap you when I see you. That's what you want. That's why I said the gentleman who you described with your five points, which I love, those agree, 1000 okay. But they.

Speaker 1: 1:20:38

But the lady right now where one earbud in at work, she listening to this podcast, and she got her little face like this, like she don't want him, and she just made a face again because she feel a way about me saying that I know I'm talking to you, bitch, you don't want him. Love didn't say that, yeah, she don't want him. She don't want him. My gorilla pimp hand. I'm sorry, but I agree with you, bruv, like I agree with you of.

Speaker 1: 1:21:05

I get to see some of the women that I'm around family members, friends, co-workers, things like that, uh, some of them are. They make it sound like they single by choice and it's like, no, I think you single by lack of opportunity. You know that, hey, you might got some men pushing up the fuck for sure, or even pushing up to kick you, but in this place now, where you calling me and sassy, I feel like men are finding an esteem for themselves. Yeah, because they weren't. We normally and I think this running I'm quote me on here I feel like that's why they killed kevin samuels. I feel like he was murdered, but like they killed kevin samuels because he meant look how many people what we doing now just in the notion of podcasts and talking about real life situations that we used to just speak and privately be about, now we putting them on a place that it's like, hey, if you really vibe with us or you understanding what it is to speak freely, you getting to hear and vibe like, hey, them niggas is talking truthful hell. Yeah, you know I'm saying so.

Speaker 1: 1:21:57

He pushed the narrative of men to be able to speak up and have a place to say something. So him being on his platform, being like hold on, wait a minute, women. Well, I'm not here to dog you because he's here to actually educate and he actually was telling men on how to step their shit up to make yourself attractive to this woman and telling that woman like, hey, you really want that top-notch nigga, this is how you gotta present yourself. Okay, and most didn't like how direct he was. Oh, he's so rude. It's like no, he's not about to let you play between the words. Yeah, I had to read, because it's a difference. It's a big difference between you getting the man to sleep with you and getting the man to propose to you. You know I'm saying more or less man.

Speaker 1: 1:22:39

A man hit just about anything. Oh, she like me, like you too. Let's go. Yeah, most people like, but they might like them back. Yeah, but am I about to like, really like give you my life? I'm about to give you my children? Am I gonna take care of you? Yeah, so this is what I mean, like as a married man.

Speaker 1: 1:22:54

Eight years in, we have been in a relationship 14 years. I get to see as my wife. I'm like, hey, man, I'll most definitely respectfully take care of her and our children. But we both had to grow to a place where it was like we need to still balance each other and I'm not just here to just fund shit, because if that's the case, most things got a price. Most things got a price. If I'm just here to fund your living, hey, you can get the fuck out. All right, I'll get you an apartment that's a bill, yeah, across town or some shit. If it's just a city, like, put this one of them on, some, I got to be myself in my relationship. Shout out to my wife man, she know how I speak, like this.

Speaker 1: 1:23:38

And Freedom Spe speakers, y'all getting to see how I talk every day, all day, not that smooth ass shit that you used to hear. That's the real chief. This is really just me of like, hey, man, I give a fuck enough to be to be honest. So you know who you getting. And my wife love me because I'm honest, but she hate me as well, and that's a hard word to say. But I because I'm honest, but she know what she getting compared to most men, nigga, we getting lied to off the rip and I had to say this one day on the rant. I'm like nigga, you want me to hold on? Hold the fuck on. You want me to take care of you? Bitch, I don't even know who you are. You need to tell me your real name really, where you live at with your real occupation, none of that shit. And I gotta you don't name really this. You really live here. Let me pick you up from your sister house or you be together long enough with each other.

Speaker 1: 1:24:20

You get to hear the lies each other told at the beginning, like hold on, wait a minute, bitch. You said you was somewhere up that night. Man, I got lots of Fuck you up. Man, let me ask before we wrap it up man we about to get out of here. I got to ask you this question. Man, you ever hit a chick you ain't trust All the time. And like Say like you Like at her crib, at her crib and you almost Got to wear it. Like nigga, some nigga About to come up in here and you don't even Want to take your shit All the way off. Like so they call hey, I don't listen to Cam Nigga. Cam said Nigga, they call that An OA game. Yeah, yeah, shout out to my brother, alfonso Thurman, my best friend, alfonso.

Speaker 1: 1:25:00

Me and him would have these rules when we would go and go over to women's cribs, especially if they was in like other neighborhoods. Yeah, we grew up on 71st Street between Sapir and St Clair. Even if you wasn't involved in all set seven, all shit in the all set, seven to all shit, you was from that neighborhood. You got associated with the shit. You got to put it on. That's a fact. You got to put it on, somebody going to ask you where you from.

Speaker 1: 1:25:20

So when we going down to King Kennedy Projects or we going to Union or we going to different places to meet up with women, we bring in condoms and we bring in pistols. We bring in this pussy, dangerous man, this some dangerous pussy. So you over there is pussy. You know what I'm saying. But you over there, fuck it. You just got your ashy dick out, nigga, fucking real quick. Rub a band, nigga. I can't relax. Fuck the living room. I ain't going laying in that bed. I can't relax. You better not go to sleep. Nigga, get in and get out.

Speaker 1: 1:25:52

I remember we went to Garden Valley this was the chat line days. We had got some action on the chat line Went over to the spot down in Garden Valley and I'm like, hey bro, this too quiet. No, man, that shit different. I don't think that's really worth it, man. But yes, nigga, nigga, nigga, nigga tiptoed in some cooch that I'm like I got to pray already. I shouldn't be here Praying the whole time. I shouldn't be here, man, she might got some nicks, yeah, some nicks. So one time some shit did happen. Bro, that's my brother, the fuck it ain't.

Speaker 1: 1:26:37

I remember going over to the girl's state in University Heights and I go over, I catch the bus over her house, I go over there. She already let me know, like man, her parents went home or whatever. So I go over there. I had all like three or four of my RTA little bus pass. I had to catch like the 3, the downtown to like the 26, to all day. I had my little route so I could get there. Nigga had the papers and shit. I had all of my 6 papers folded up. I had my no skip CD player and them whole shit on the bus. But I get over there, we do our 1-2 and I felt special. I did my little 3-4.

Speaker 1: 1:27:16

So now we chilling watching TV, you hear the keys jingle coming through the front door. She like, and I'm like, oh, what the fuck? It was her pops that walked in. So we get up off the couch and just stand up and this nigga big as fuck, bruh. He had to be like six, four, six, five, uniform working dad, julius, julius type shit man.

Speaker 1: 1:27:42

So I'm like, hey, how you doing, sir, I'm here to take out Megan. I'm like hey, how you doing, sir. He was like, hey, how you doing Get. He was like hey, how you doing Get the fuck out. Hey, straight, like that, straight, like that bruh. And I just walked past him on some nervous shit like hey, this nigga big as fuck. But as I'm getting closer I feel like this nigga feel like, hey, he big too. This coming from a big nigga, yeah, he big too. So it like this coming from a big nigga. Yeah, he big too. So it's like I'm at the still on this nigga man. But I walk out the house, out the front door, the screen, don't walk past him and shit, he closed the door.

Speaker 1: 1:28:28

I just hear the nigga going off on her. Man, the fuck are y'all loose ass? Anything could have fucking happened and I'm like I ain't gonna be talking to her, god damn. But I say this man, being in some of them positions, nigga, I done some wild shit in my life, man. So being in some of them positions, it fuck with my trust of life. Bitch, I don't trust you, don't trust you nigga. I don't trust you, bitch. Not at all, man. And it be like that, hey. But we live, we learn, live and we learn, man. The fuck up shit another day, hey, man, listen. Thanks for joining us for another episode of Permission to Speak Freely. Man, so glad to.