Permission 2 Speak Freely Podcast

Locked up in Canada, Birthday Mishaps, and Holding Down Your Spouse

• Chief Ali & Lay Loe Tha Mos • Episode 17

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Speaker 1:

Okay, we about to get ready to record a little bit. Man, you can finish up some of your work, but you can sit right out there At the at the table now. All right, don't be hit on my switches too. Oh, give you the best to me. Oh, oh, yeah, bro, they fresh wrong with. Yeah, fresh hip-hop fresh. Oh, that was hard, though. Oh, oh, freely. Permission to speak freely, freely, mm-hmm, good day. That was hard. That was nice, man. I like that. What's happening there, everybody, welcome, Welcome, welcome to Another episode of permission to speak freely. Thanks for joining us today.

Speaker 1:

I hope you're doing what not to ski? That's been on my mind and I've been seeing that on the TV. It's kind of been stuck in my head to and, from what I understand, it's kind of like a, like a lady thing, I don't know. I think it's like the skirt. It's like another car sound. You know, like me growing up, we say certain stuff. We like we used to do little shit in the hood, like grab your attention, like hey, we got a problem over here. Yeah, well, ski, that's, that's the new one. That's funny, man. That's for people who find it funny, like me. Yeah, I found me saying it. I hear it a lot and I just can't catch me, like you got to say what the deep Shit is hilarious. That's real, man. Shout out to the female artists who have trends catching on. Yes, shout out. Shout out to them. You know I don't like shit. You know I'm saying it ain't really my speed, but hey, it's entertaining money, man, do you? You know I would never like, I would never ask Alexa, hey, alexa, play the ski eat song for me. That's just something that's not gonna happen. You know I'm saying yeah, maybe 15, 20 years ago, ski man, love something different. It means something else. Ski, it was something that may be left on a chin.

Speaker 1:

You can make a necklace out of, out of ski. Yeet, you know you normally jury, yeah, it's jury, normally drill. You'd rather it be a face piercing or, you know a necklace, brain bracelet, yeah, you know these beats a Private piercing, if you will. You know, and that's one as well. I mean like a Hindu tattoo, just kind of yeah, stay there until it is all, yeah, until until somebody come through with the warm rag and then take care of that. You know who used to get the warm rag, who used to know who usually gets the warm rag. It depends on what happened here.

Speaker 1:

Okay, so you know, as a guy, you, if you just got taken care of, you know what I mean, mm-hmm, you, you, you all right, you go. So he got it going there. No, no, no, no, no, no, it's like the, the care continues. If you just got taken care of, you know what I mean, and you a little, I Want to say moist. However, you a little, yeah, trying to save pause moments, fuck it you a little. You a little wet around the area, rather be from right around the edge, from saliva or some ski. You know the care will continue in Someone going to grab a nice warm rag for you, perhaps a little bit of soap, and come back with a dry towel and get you together. The care continues.

Speaker 1:

Now, if you were the one who perhaps Shot up the outside of the club not the inside, perhaps, but for you to wrap, you just Busting at the front door Just want to scare the folks, you know, sam, we won't hurt nobody. We don't want to kill nobody or bring somebody into the world. We don't want to produce Life nor kill it. Yeah, you know for sure, for sure, you know, you, you would be the one to. You know, go and grab that, that nice, warm rag, not too hot, and you know the way for it not to be too hot is pretty much to make it hot as shit by the time you get to when it's going It'll be nice and it's like always warm. Yeah, I think that it you lose. You lose some points if you, if you Don't make the rag, don't come back with no cold as let that water run for a minute.

Speaker 1:

I don't know about your house, but in mind the water take a little, take a little second to get there. You know about a good 29 seconds, especially if it hasn't been a house man, it ain't been. Oh, it's a lot of pipes going on. If it ain't been ran for a while, it's like, yeah, he's the first hand wash in the morning. We all do this like, so there ain't been no water but cold water running, just sitting in pipes, toilet flushing, yeah, some Biggie's rinsing something out of the kitchen, but some warm water. You got them. You gotta make the water warm.

Speaker 1:

Listeners, our freedom speakers, we giving you just some clues, just a couple little tips to help that massage session was we gonna call it that massage session? I like that. She massaged you, you massaged her inside and out and y'all was able to have that happy ending. That is necessary for that Message, for that one rag to come through and do his thing. Now I got another question pertaining to that what color rag do we use here? Does it matter?

Speaker 1:

Well, to be honest, man, in our household we generally use white rags and I'm kind of like a standard. I Start using white rags just on my own because I Like the way that the bleach smelled on the on the rag. I like the way the fragrance smelled. At the same time, the white rag gave me a Clearance that my body was clean, cuz the rag was dirty. Because the rag was, yeah, I'm like oh damn, like oh, man, especially when I know, like on some I Went to work like Friday, yeah, man, we cut the grass, you can scrubbing them calves. It's like I went to work Friday and then, like Saturday, I like hung out all day, yeah, and then maybe, like maybe Sunday, and once I didn't caught my one side of walk past myself enough time like who got hands, okay, then feel I might hit this hour.

Speaker 1:

No, white rag be like Off-white base, but I feel clean, you feel a, I can see the result. I can see the place. Oh, if I'm using like a face scrub or something, I want to see the dirt come off my face. The product is working. If I got me a, a power washer, you know, or like I'm power washing the driveway, I want to see the dirt, dirty water coming out to the carpet cleaner cleaning my wife and I have, you can see the dirty water Going into the little container and it makes you feel like wow, this is disgusting. Yeah, like we had. We was just sitting in. That's what I do, man.

Speaker 1:

I be trying like I would clean the carpet like three times to see if the water get better. It does get better, mm-hmm, but like Damn, after a while it might be. I had to convince myself one time. I'm like I think I'm just Cleaning the die out. Yeah, right, it's just the guy I'm gonna do, I'm gonna get it. Like, matter of fact, I do got a new. This is still just a new patch of carpet. I'm gonna hit the carpet cleaning with that because that's a new, fresh, never been stepped on piece of carpet. I'm gonna hit that with the carpet clean and see what come up. Yeah, let me know, man.

Speaker 1:

So I say this man, when you bring that white rag cuz we use white rags in our household Make sure you saturate the entire rag. Oh yeah, I did. Your don't you come in there wiping nobody off with no dry as crusty gas corners? No, you didn't. You didn't. You didn't just wet the tip of the rag just to get the wipe the areas. Yeah, you know, you got a lather it up a little bit. I'm gonna have a little on there. It should be dripping. Have it saturated with some water. Yeah, so that you can.

Speaker 1:

And if you a pro Talk to you will get one white Uh-huh, you'll fold that joint. Oh shit, go ahead, get another one. And if you really fly or you got some quality tiles, you probably can get one more where you just kind of polish. If you got like some nice size body rags Not not to be confused with the face towel yeah, yeah, you got some large as well. If you, if you didn't get your Watch rags from Dollar General, you have enough room for the trifold. It'll be enough left, you know. And For me I don't know if this TMI, but you know I prefer to start beneath the balls and work your way up and then come across the top with that second fold and then finish it off Down the shaft body in you have a generally, you know, more clean situation to where now we rinse, okay, squeeze or hit you again, and now we coming with that dry time before perhaps Shower time.

Speaker 1:

But we want to be comfortable. We got to run to the kitchen get some juice. Okay, cranberry, gotta do that cranberry juice. My wife tends to have issues. She'd be like you going downstairs like that. I sleep with the hamster gonna see me Get up. Why? Why I have a house I can't like be free. You know I can't be. I can't walk down 296, nevermind my mama.

Speaker 1:

Listen to this. Thanks so much y'all for listening. Permission for free. We hadn't been here in a while. Man, oh man, we've been dad and man we dad. We've been dad. We've been on the husband kick, husband, and then in dad kick a work has been like Popping, like head work is working, but it's been working. Would you say that you said this man this week been weakening? Yeah, it was last week. This week too, but it was last week for me like yeah, damn, nah, I'm a fuck. Starting a birthday was last week. Yeah, I ain't freedom speakers, I ain't talk to y'all since I was 31. I was 31 last time y'all heard from me nigga 32 now, yeah, 32, and shaked in the floor. He running the ball on that, jim Brown in the ball, man Running the bar. So tell me this, man, when you know we we've been rocking so many hats and we've been doing so many different things lately, you have had your birthday.

Speaker 1:

What did you do to celebrate? What did you enjoy? My wife did in a bit. People was asking me beforehand hey man, what you doing for the B they out today. That ain't none of my business. Spore me. I don't know what's going on. All I know is perhaps the outfit I'm wearing. She probably picked that up. She Got me some shit. That's our new little shit, but no man. So let me tell you my wife did an amazing job.

Speaker 1:

Man, I'm the type I don't man, I don't be one to do too too much. Man, I feel like I've just kind of got back in the the groove, if you will even want to, like I Celebrate my birthday. These last few years I kind of find myself in like a little little slump, like I don't care. You know how long I get a cake. Give me cake. I'm cool, you know saying and I found recently that's how a lot of men are, it's not just me, even when it, like I said, like I said a few weeks ago on the pod man, I like being celebrated more on Father's Day than my own birthday, you know, while there's millions of other fathers being celebrated across at least the country I don't know if they celebrate Father's Day in another country, but, um, but that's just me, man. But this birthday I was kind of looking forward to it. I've grown a lot in this past year.

Speaker 1:

Again, man, I was in my transition period. You know, my son's birthday, my oldest son's birthday, is July 14th and after his birthdays. I'm gonna say this now, so I never get it. Gotta say it again after July 14th, watch out, because that's when I go into transformation mode is, it's almost exactly two months before my birthday and that's when I go to Working on myself, that's when I go to building, that's when I get to critique in myself what can I do better? Well, how can I improve, rather as being a better father, better husband, a better, a better director at the company, like whatever, whenever I'm the what can I do better, what can I work on. So I'm in that mode and I'm also. It's something about this time. I'm not. I'm not too fine to take in those shit now Two months. You got ten months to fuck with me during these two months. Watch it like I'm just. I'm into a don't. You know, I cut the hair this year, went on to cut the locks off, you know, but um, but that's that's. You know, that's transformation mode, man. But my wife, she did an amazing job and celebrate me on my birthday. I love you, baby.

Speaker 1:

We went out to um, to pinecrest, over in Orange Village, and it's this spot that I hadn't heard of and it's called a Color Me Mine, called Color Me Mine, where you go in, and and it felt like we had the whole spot running out to ourselves. Our appointment was first, but you go in, you pick out a little figurine and you paint it. You paint it, man, you do, you take your time, do your thing, you know. Uh, based on how the figurine you pick is the price you know, and you also pay for the appointment, like a little eight dollar appointment fee or whatever. Um, I Painted they.

Speaker 1:

Actually they happen to have. I'll show you a picture of when we're done here, but they had like four turtles stacked on top of each other and that was the one. I think I got four kids, yeah. So it was kind of perfect. You know saying in each of the turtles, first of all their different sizes, all my kids, different sides, real symbolic, yeah, at least for now. And then one of the turtles to which to me, is my oldest daughter. One of the turtles has turned the opposite way of the other ones and kind of in they shell, that's, that's my baby girl. Like you know, I painted them each like a slightly different color green. My kids are different colors. I got a white baby. I got two white babies, my old son and my baby girl. They white, uh, white by Tone color, but not like they car case. But uh, but yeah, man, I painted those. You go pick them up after 10 days. So, um, on saturday I'm actually going to pick them up. I'm excited to see how mine turned out.

Speaker 1:

I think I did a great job and just how detailed I was with it. I took my time with it. My wife painted like a penguin, you know, and it was good for us just sitting there just talking about a little stuff and just and just painting and it was quiet. You know, the sun was coming through the window and I appreciate stuff like that. You know, after that man, we went out to eat. You know, I got a little, got a little drink that had me feeling good I had two of them, if I'm not mistaken had me on, had me kind of lean, a little bit like, oh, we, my wife had a drink.

Speaker 1:

Uh, that tastes like lotion, not that it was nasty, but it's like Like like lotion taste or like lotion texture, not lotion texture. It was kind of. It did have kind of like a milky, but it was, um, what a herb was in there, was it? It was lavender in the. You know, lavender is an herb, so it was a lavender leaf in the drink and I think the lavender made it taste like that. This put a pump of lotion. Yeah, I'm hip to like mentally. Yeah, yeah, they put men, they put basal in certain drinks to give it a little pop. You got to like shout out to the bar guy he taught me you kind of got to activate, you got to smack that motherfucker, wake that, wake that shit up before you put it in there and put a. But yeah, her drink tasted like lotion man, but we kind of got to kick out of that. That was fun, funny. Uh, thanks again. Baby food.

Speaker 1:

Uh, you know, looking out for me on the B day, man, I had a good day, I had a good day and that's cool. Man, I think that is always like as a king, as a man, you being celebrated is a necessary thing, yeah, and being celebrated by your family, almost definitely your woman, your wife, like that, that hits a little bit different than just for sure. Um, you know, it hits a little bit different than just getting the happy birthday social media messages, happy birthday from your grandma when you're on the. You know, those are great, you want those, those, those warm your soul. So I tend to get a little overwhelmed with, like, the public messages. Last year I actually took my birthday off of social media just so, specifically, facebook wouldn't send out the alert. So those who know it's my birthday go hit up. Hey, happy birthday.

Speaker 1:

But you know, and I appreciate all of the love, I don't want to, you know, sing, you know unappreciative or anything but like I legit get overwhelmed, overwhelmed. Phone going off, bling, bling, bling, bling and, like you know, we in business man, you know, sometimes the cell phone, wave 400 pounds, carry this mug around. So I definitely appreciate all of the love, but I get a little ah, you know, and I also feel the need to respond to everyone. Yeah, so what I do is, you know, at least after the day is done, you know what I mean. I go through and you know love and respond to everybody individually. Thank you so much. I put out a mass message, you know.

Speaker 1:

So, um, so I do kind of try to wait like, ah, but people who really fuck with me and know like, oh shit, it's my birthday, don't fuck with me and shoot a message, rather be home base or the or the silly or whatever it is. But appreciate you all as well, thank you. Thank you for the birthday love. Yeah, man, you gotta be. Um, it's nice to be celebrated, man, it's nice to be celebrated, it is.

Speaker 1:

So I'll say this man, a little bit about, um, that time that you spent with your wife in being celebrated. Shout out to to sis for looking out for Brody. Uh, he, he, he, a better director to everybody here when you showing him love. So keep up that work. So this is true, my work performance increases, uh, 19 and a half percent. So, you know, do that one thing. You know, do both of them, we'll make more money, for sure. That's the same with me and wifey. Man, we have that unique balance where we work together, live together, yeah, children together. Yeah, um, we, we, we do almost everything together. So, needing that, um, that time that we can just be husband and wife together, it's like it's heavy. Sure, it's like one of the things that we push in now.

Speaker 1:

So, um, this year for my birthday because it was in August, yeah, wifey hooked me up, god did, did, uh, I went to jail. We ain't got a chance. I was about to say, man, we ain't got a chance to touch on it when, sis coming up, you want it to wait? Well, I tap on it a little bit today. It's been a while, it's been over a month, it's been over a month, it's been almost two months. So, um, my tap on it a little bit. Well, it's almost your next birthday. We still ain't talking about the show. Yeah, it's a show, it's a show, it's a show. But launch through a show, make a short, straight shoulder.

Speaker 1:

Um, she took me to Detroit for my birthday, to a hotel called the King, the whole, uh, the Leo collection. I'm a Leo snagging saying birthday. I see the connection. I saw the Leo's, all that Mmm. But um, hey, so we go there, we enjoy ourselves some restaurants, some activities, some fun, some dispensaries as well. So she ended up surprising me with another trip while we were there and was stated like hey, let's go to Canada. I'm like I ain't bring my, uh, my passport. She's like no, I got it for you and I'm just cheese and a smile and having fun.

Speaker 1:

So we leave from one dispensary, we hit the city, then we go to um, canada, but you got to go through customs. Yeah, so as you go through customs, man, they sit like your cell phone servers go out and then you get hit with a text message Like welcome to here. Oh shit, and it's like you can't leave, you can't turn around on this life. Like a quarter mile, half a mile, half a mile, half a mile, half a mile, all these cars is in, you cannot turn around.

Speaker 1:

So, that being said, that we pull up and it's our first time here they're asking us like a series of questions and they asked that we have any weapons guns, knives, pepper spray, marijuana, anything in there. And I had all of those things. This is like I had animals in the truck, I had all of those things in there, but I had weapons, I had a pistol, I had a knife, I had weed, I had a bearded dragon in the back, I had my wife. She had gangsta too. So they had a velociraptor and two German, two people, two German shepherds.

Speaker 1:

But, uh, I looked at me in the face and was like no, and I wasn't the right answer. That was not the right answer. Keep in mind, man, we're going through customs, like right through. This. Customs is like common streets, people, houses, freeways, you know other little shopping, all kind of stuff, and I'm just sitting there goofy like man, like I knew I had a gun in this car. I'm licensed to carry my sense of care in the state of Ohio, in adjacent states, and we have whatever other states adopts the same gun laws as the state of Ohio, bordering state Ohio and bordering states.

Speaker 1:

Um, however, in Canada, as I found out after being detained, is they let us go through customs and told us where to go through secondary and the guy kind of giving me this look like I want to beat your ass. He's clearly lying to me. Suck ass, fuck ass. But they put. They put a different ticket on the front of my car. Then other people, they put a red stick you know your shit. Like I think one of them like you taking your ass to the principal's office type shit. So we put it over and it's so easy to just like drive through and be like I ain't going in that mother. Then they stay a high speed, chase your bitch ass now because you in a whole way just stealing a whole you international.

Speaker 1:

Now the rights is different. I had to. They had to send the letter to the US and let them know how was the time he had this and it's like I'm like, so they go. So I'm like they're going to raffle me off like Brittany Gardner. Like Joe Biden heard about this. I'm like this came across something like I'm on an email yeah, I got that, but they got kids Shit. Where's it from? Why he's from? He's from the wine state, it's from Ohio. Oh, the permission to speak for you? Yeah, oh yeah. They said fuck the police. One episode my son said I asked you shit, but it was a song they say I don't know how to respond to that man. So we did.

Speaker 1:

We soon as we get over to secondary and I know I got the pistol in there and I see all of these officers of the law. I just ended up telling them like hey, yeah, man, I got a pistol in the car. He just snatched me up, me and Vanessa, snatched us straight up and was like, well, it was about eight officers like they wouldn't. They was deep right. They snatched me up, handcuffed me, handcuffed. Vanessa was like you're trying to, you're under arrest for trying to smuggle a gun into Canada. I'm like and I'm in the middle, he was a 40 cal. So, either way, 40 was a 40 cal. Mmp Military, military. Mp is for military police, smith and West pistol 40 cal and compact. So all of these details make it even worse, because I could not suppose to have a pistol in Canada and you can't have a compact pistol. I had a pistol that was compact and a lot of bodies said I didn't have it.

Speaker 1:

So, rukh and your, you did not know you were leaving the states. No, so this was a surprise to you. Detroit was a surprise, the hotel was a surprise. And leaving the warm, comfy United States of America was not on your agenda. No, leaving my car because they impounded my car and I just got that car, just got that. We ain't going to talk about the 10 on the wheel, but we're going to leave that out.

Speaker 1:

But they, they ended up arresting Vanessa and detain us. I'm so sorry, made us, you didn't deserve this. It's OK, maybe he did, but you did. That's ain't deserving. When I saw them put her in hand, that made me sad thinking about that. When I saw them put her in hand because I'm like my baby not built for this, my baby not built for this. No, no, she gonna be somebody Bitch. No, that's how you see her. She will have a face tattoo. She gonna be buffest, taking prison pussy Like. But we are.

Speaker 1:

The arresting officer was actually very nice. It was very. That's, that's nice. He showed a lot of Canadian hospitality, yeah, a lot of hospitality. He wasn't a hold to us, however, it's always the good cop back. It was another guy who took orientation really serious and when somebody told him, like you protect the United States borders with your life, that pumped him up with passion. He was trained for combat and looking for combat and possibly would never see combat so, but he's always on the edge looking for combat. I'm in charge, that's him, that's you, as him Maple tree. So I'm gonna tell you about him too. Man, he was actually a asshole, but I would tell you about him later.

Speaker 1:

So once they read this, all right to everything like their memorandum rights and their version of the memorandum rights. They have us take off our jury, take our shoe strings out of our shoes. They took our access medical stuff like you need to eat. You got diabetes, asthma, all that stuff. And my baby just pulled out her little list of conditions. She pulled out her list of conditions. She had air conditioning herself. She got the firm. They made sure her sandwich had no motor.

Speaker 1:

But they give a shit about me. But they put me in the cell. They put her in the cell and I practice, we all together, or not? No, we actually identified as a woman, right. Well, what I mean is like Vanessa is somewhere else. She's across the hall. Can you see Vanessa? No, I can't. Okay, I can hear her. I can hear. That's just jail, baby, it's jail. We ain't like. I've never been to jail with another person that I gave a shit about Anywhere. She heard her. She was. The females was across, the girls was across, and I was in there with the guys, but we were in there by ourselves. Yeah, so, and I'm so glad that we did get caught during the week, during a weekday, during business hours, it was like a Wednesday, it was like a Thursday or Friday, it was I don't know what's. So long, I don't know. Just do something to you on time. But, um, we ended and we was in there and I keep hearing them coming over to ask her things and I'm listening so I can mash up the story, but I'm telling them the same thing Like man. My wife surprised me. It's my birthday. I didn't know. That wasn't that pistol. It was mine, yes, but it wasn't my primary or secondary pistol, it was my backup pistol. I forgot I had it in there. Hey, in the US we got the right to bear arms. They, I forgot, y'all got guns, like, give me a break. It was one of them, man, but that means they, they. They came in there and kept checking on me and they got cameras in there.

Speaker 1:

If you do not know me, I practice in my meditation. Anytime you hear me saying I'm meditating, I am practicing sitting still. Yeah, I'm practicing sitting still, breathing, getting my thoughts right, but I got minimum movement, like Dracks eating a Zargnut Master, being so incredibly still they appear to be invisible. I Dracks, damn damn. But I'm sitting there, bro, just in my meditation, just looking at this, thinking that I'm like, all right, I should give one phone call. Who, who the fuck am I going to call? And it was going to be you. I had a feeling it's going to be you. I'm like do I remember his number? I remember the job number. He might not ask it. Well, it is a week. You call that one. He might leave a voicemail at least. Man, I voicemail, fool Something. That's what it got to contact with somebody, Text me.

Speaker 1:

But, man, we was able to get out and they had to run the checks. They ran an FBI check on us, they ran a check on the pistol, they ran a check on the car and I didn't know this until after I got detained, had to go through it to get to it. If you have almost anything on your record, any conviction beyond, like some traffic shit, you ran or air light or made a turn on red or some shit. If you got Drug cases of any sort, if you got violence of any sort, if you have obstruction of justice, almost any goddamn thing, man, a man with an officer, they will hold and detain you. You know I'm saying just because and it's some of them guys that as we came through the, when we came back home I'm the chief of police in Michigan, detroit Gave me a conversation and gave me a lesson that like a father would give to a son, and he was white though, but it was like you can tell he was one of them Like amen, I vibe with white, with black people.

Speaker 1:

I don't have an issue with black people. I grew up around you guys on the sofa. But you can kind of tell it like this daughter probably dated a black guy. She brought him home but the information he gave was like hey, anytime you got any weapons man, you just let them know any police anywhere. He was like there, he looked at me in my eye and was like son, there are people who are extremely excited to take you out Just because, ok, you got to make it home. He's like there's people who will be there waiting and waiting for any excuse. Where does that's right? And I'm like well, but it was just one of them like hey, thank you, speaking to my soul of like hey, I know you know better.

Speaker 1:

They ran our FBI checks. They got all the information. They get to see like we lawabiding citizens. They get to see like our careers and what we do and everything. So I wasn't saying shit to none of these officers. I asked for a lawyer. My lawyer or attorney is not for criminal shit, he is for taxes. It's for numbers, not for just throwing numbers at me. Yes, slinging that ink pen, slicking ink pen at my bitch ass man.

Speaker 1:

But after they let us go and they saw how old that the pistol was old but I haven't used it. It was just tucked away. My primary and secondary. They clean it ready to go, they for action, but because they cannot use guns there the police officer still only can use guns on duty. So the guy was just asking like the good cop. That was like cool with it. It was like you guys are clean, you're free to go. You guys are clean, you're squeaky clean.

Speaker 1:

But it was like surprised when he pulled up all of our information of like hey, they story paying out. He said he was. He didn't know where he was going. Obviously his wife cooperated the story he just was trying to smoke weed and have sex internationally with his wife. Like it's like a good birthday, yeah, you know.

Speaker 1:

So even when they let us out and they gave us all our stuff, the bad cop was like, yeah, you're not the usual people we see from Ohio, like we usually see, like white hillbilly, like meth heads. Like do you know any of them? Like, do any of your? I'm like so, but you know what you should have told me. Well, bitch, I'm from Cleveland and walked away we was still International. Who's there? Like me, you were just on the other side of the slimmer, we was just out the door, like on the bench. We wouldn't die, but we wouldn't, we wouldn't still in here, we still detained. We'll send him an email. I just play, not even play. It felt real Like if this was slavery, was would be yeah of.

Speaker 1:

Now this person is trying to play on my mental and I think I Think jail just because I counsel people that that went to jail and things of that nature, that of course they harbor your body in there, but they really try to break your mind. Oh, yeah, they reach out, break your spirit, man, try to get you conform to the lingo that's in there, the timing that's in there, like the routine that's in there. I'm eating chow, I'm gonna go here. I was like so when you come home you have a complete disassociation to what the lingo or terminology is, what timing is amongst the real world, so on and so forth. But it felt like slavery of he asking these ignorant questions to see what our characters slip, because anything we could have said to probably try to keep us detained, it would have been him pushing to be the one. Why so? When he was asked like you, you guys? You know you guys are not like the usual. You know he'll Billy meth head, uh-oh, people that we see from Ohio. He's like do you, do you hang out with them or any of them? I'm like what we I'm like, but I'm like well, you see, we got caught with weed or, sir, we don't do Meph and we're black Next time around. Some white ill billies Do a lousy that do meth. They kept the weed, yeah, but we wasn't even the charge because we was legal in Detroit and we just legal in Canada back home smoking legal.

Speaker 1:

They gave you a pistol back. They told me I can fight it in court to go and get that gun. Now that gun is the longest committed relationship I've ever been in man. Okay, it's a heavy break up. I had that gun before kids at that gun, before my wife. I had that gun Probably before I had my first car. Maybe I Got it, I got, maybe I know I know. No, no, no, no, I had a gun Before.

Speaker 1:

I didn't have a pistol. I had a Mossberg shotgun 500, a pump. I used it and if you know me, when I had to cross it, I used to ride around with a Mossberg shotgun with the pistol grip 500, a speed loader on the side in my bin of backs, in the back of the trunk. And if you ever had a crown Vic, you can put fold full female bodies and full-grown female bodies and pride, full Male bodies in the child if you put them up at the top with a spare time. What a spirit. But it's a, it's a big police cars, old police cruiser, so I, but I used to ride around with the Mossberg shotgun back there.

Speaker 1:

So that was the first pistol that I bought, because that I couldn't and these were laws that I learned at this time Going into the gun store. I didn't have to have a License to obtain a weapon for home defense yes, I Didn't have to, they just ran the checks inside of the store but for anything that I wanted to carry on my body at this time. Everybody, this gun over 16 years, mm-hmm. I had to have a carry a Care concealed weapon license. I end up getting one Eight years or seven, eight years ago. But I was riding Dirty just because, yeah, I didn't know what clean was, I just knew what having a.

Speaker 1:

But, um, the guy was trying to the the mean officer wheel. He was trying his best to break our character and it just was seeming like I'm a really mental person. So I'm kind of sitting like this guy's fucking weak as shit mentally, like he's pulling out the big guns to try to make us break character and it's sad. But it's really like I can smell the jealousy coming through his fucking non-melanated pores. I can smell it because when he pulled that, when he pulled that FBI check, mmm, when he pulled the international who is this us person, remember, you could just Google, you could just Google them, found out. But they got the data To find everything out. So now was, what do you guys? Do you guys that the nice officer talking to Nessa? I'm like bitch, you're supposed to be a. We wanted to fucking. We wanted legal representation. Watch what we're telling him. You make shirts, shit. So we was free. That's free, but we were able to be let go.

Speaker 1:

They did keep the pistol. The guy even was asking like when was the last time you clean this gun? Because we heard him Racking the bullets through. She's sound, it ain't move so. But he was interested in what are the guns that I had, the guns that I shoot, and I'm for Second right amendment. I believe in the second right amendment only just because I feel like it Play. It was a playing field.

Speaker 1:

You got bad guys who have guns who are not fucking following the rules of obtaining. Yeah, I was one of these guys running around with a dirty pistol. Yeah, so I fucking know. Okay, I know. So I Understand that. So if somebody coming in my house and they like we took all the guns, but somebody coming here that's not abiding by the rules, don't give a fuck, made me a fucking victim. Yeah, you made me a victim by default. This is yeah, bad guys are not following the rules. So if the rules are a, you can have a pistol because a, they potentially got one, but you got her. Here's some education on it. Yeah, that has an education on it. Look at the trainer. Yeah, some for training man Some legit training, because this is the savior life.

Speaker 1:

You're somebody here potentially trying to take yours, or somebody that you care for, though police might not get there fast enough, as we stated clearly. I know the police are supposed to protect and serve, but who is the question? Who is the question? Who are they fucking protecting and serving? Hmm, come here right. Hmm, did they protect and serve him? No Child after that family. Much love and respect to you, much love and respect to that family, that strong, beautiful family, for sure, but no, they didn't protect him like they were supposed to, so I did not. I digress, man.

Speaker 1:

So when we, when this officer, let us go. He was trying to break our character, we're, we're sitting out in the lobby now and I kind of thought that this person was just tired targeting us. When another person that you can just kind of walk through the border of course you got to go through Customs or whatever it is, but you got, you can walk through the border, show your ID, so on and so forth another gentleman was walking through there, so I know he probably have. He was Hispanic or Latin and he had a couple different IDs. The first name was the same, but then, as I also learned from Hispanic and Latin people, some of them got two last names. So the ID says one, this one says another. They ended up letting them through.

Speaker 1:

But the guy who was the mean cop to us, the bad cop To us, was like, hey, man, I don't we should arrest him. Wait a minute. How do we always, in what section cold speed now section says that he can do that Fucking back. We should go, he could have stuff and I'm just sitting there like, but he would have been the one to kill us. He'd have been the one to kill us, he'd have been the motherfucking one. So he's the one who was getting bullied in high school.

Speaker 1:

That was him. Yeah, you the one. Got a tight little t-shirt, got a badge. Thank you all. Motherfucking, tough and shit. Now he the law and it's like a man. That only that. That authority Don't make your dick bigger, mm-hmm. That authority don't make you a more attractive to women. They don't make other men so postive. Respect you. You got a false level of confidence. I know people with none of that shit worth ten of you Like. But hey, you know he was fucking with somebody. That's God like. That's all through that facade of like Fuck the police, specifically Him, uh, him shout out to the good cop a fuck.

Speaker 1:

When we say fuck the police, you understand this is this is directed to I know police who say fuck the police, for sure. You know, I'm saying like I became a cop because I just need to be better around here If I see something, I'm saying something. So specifically to that motherfucker right there who is trying to get my brother in my ghetto get, get a rise out my brother. You know what I mean. Fuck you. You don't know I, I fight Titans every day. He don't know that. He, he, he was upset, he had to be at work. Mm-hmm, yeah, man, he was sad, for sure. Man, we're sorry. Sound like you had a good birthday. Yeah, it was this. This rivals the hangover time. Like this was a hand man, that's it. Wow, so, so we.

Speaker 1:

So when we leave rough, it's the cliffhanger when we leave because they, they let us go. They tell us we had the wheel. We will be detained for the next seven years If we ever go back through customs to go into Canada. I'm like I ain't trying to see Toronto or Drake that bad. I wait today they be in Vegas. So I'm where I'm saying I visit there often.

Speaker 1:

But, um, once they let us go, they were like most people just leave, but you guys can, you know, because everything panned out, you're not criminals. And this then a third, and you know, but you basically a slap on the wrist, you guys can go check out the country, I Like man. So we, we end up going. We should have left, yeah, but we end up going just just just for, just for. We came all this way, hey, but it was still like amen, let's, let's go. We ain't even going down, we, driving through the city, it looked like any other city houses, cars, walking dogs, water and shit. But I'm like, amen, let's just deep breath, deep breath, deep breath. Let's just find a park or something to sit on and relax. Let's find some water. And we ended up finding like where I think it's like Ontario, like Michigan, whatever it is from the other side, from the other side. But we go sit by the water.

Speaker 1:

And some two ladies walked up to us, two Mormons. They were Mormons and they started talking to us about religion, about God, and I'm a person that I don't turn anybody away that this is a mission that they feel like they own and we were supposed to meet in some kind of way, shape or form. They don't know. I know as much as I know about spirituality or religion and I can hold a conversation with them. I don't have to conform to what they want me to conform to, but I can hold my own. So in this conversation, the thing that stuck out to us was like God loves you, jesus loves you. I can see and feel it all around you. I can just. I can tell, I can tell like you, you, I can tell, and I'm just sitting there like me.

Speaker 1:

You don't know how much we needed to hear that because you didn't know we just got out of jail. You didn't know that, you didn't know that white Mormon lady that was from Europe and she came to Canada and she was always wanted to go to the US. I'm like right across the bridge, she's right across the. I can't get it now. She was right here Bridge, but I digress. But in that moment, man, we needed that, we needed that. She didn't know we needed that. That like, hey, man, god got you all back, god looking after you. Yeah, I could cover.

Speaker 1:

So as we drive him back is getting late now because by time they, we got let free fucking city closed. This whole city is so buttery, we closed like 730. I want you all to say, from the moment you said no to the moment where it's like all right, y'all can go, how much time was that? I like four hours, like four hours. Why, if I'm just I now round up because we sat in that cell, I said that cell, I said that they're right, I did man, it was so they let us out by. We's in probably four hours.

Speaker 1:

We see the ladies at the. At the. At the, it looked like Edgewater, the Edgewater Park, the place you was at. See, I could have just stayed and nobody there spoke English. For real, everybody there spoke French. 95% of people spoke French. Only the people who spoke English to us you can tell English wasn't their first language.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, so when we're driving back through customs, so when we go to do some keep in mind when we go to Canada, we go over the bridge from Detroit to go over this big ass bridge. You can also go under the bridge. Or like the other way. We ended up going like the street way and as we drive in, I'm like, hey, it'd be funny if we get arrested again. I'm like is we got to go back through customs and I got to just tell them I had a pistol and shit. So go back to customs. Do you have to tell them you had a pistol? Yeah, it was only like four and a half hours ago that I got paperwork to still fresh out off the press that I'm fresh out of jail. I was only in Canada, I wouldn't have. Maybe I'm returning home.

Speaker 1:

They like, oh, were you were visiting, where were you doing entertainment? They're like, oh, but we had to explain to them Like, oh, you had a gun. We was detained earlier, soon, as I say, I had a pistol. It's like everybody on snap, I'm a shit. That's really serious.

Speaker 1:

But they ended up having us go back through customs. They check our vehicle making sure we're not like smuggling or anything coming back and forth. They got things like you can't bring certain fruit, can't bring certain food, fish, birds, things of that nature, no point in sending it, but it messed up the ecosystem. So they ended up this time we was only detained maybe like 40 minutes and that's when the like the chief officer gave me that conversation like hey, son, man, just tell them you got a gun anytime. And this was after this was after Gotcha. So he was like, uh, you know, man, just just tell us. Man, you got to let everybody know, everybody know, but don't, don't, don't, bullshit. I mean, what would have changed if he said, oh, do you have it? Oh, actually, yes, I. If what would have changed was I still would have been detained, but the gun would have been put in a lock box, carry. They would have kept it secured all the way until we came back through.

Speaker 1:

Customs Would have went back through there, searched us and gave me back my pistol, because in the USA I'm breaking no laws, yeah, but in Canada I smuggled in the gun and the in the, the bad cop. When we was leaving, he had said you Americans, in your second right amendment, I'm like you, really bad enemy, jealous of America's and I just sent her for a second life. I think you jealous that we American, we got guns, we got free. I paid for my shit to get out the same day. My story cooperated Uh, we didn't, we didn't, we didn't have to spend no night in jail.

Speaker 1:

And when they looked up what we are and who we are and made them feel real small, yeah, bitch ass. Oh, straight up. But on that note, bitch man, fuck him. Yeah, I'm glad y'all good man, I'm glad things that man wish to return to our better. But you know, going through that experience man, funny fucking story. Hey man, beautiful, beautiful weekend, great fucking sex, great sex like internationally. We get the guy, get no buns in the now. Okay, somebody was trying to probably go get mine in jail. I'm gonna have to fight, but no, but just having that vacay in the room, kicking it, making love, doing our want to reconnect in that way, end up going to jail, last thing, oh my, yeah.

Speaker 1:

So I made it on the next day. We, you know what we get home, that we go to the hotel that night. We, we just it's one of them we keep. Hey, we was just a jail, hey you. Yeah, I'm right, though that's the shit. But it made me love her a little bit harder. Like, been through one more thing, been through one and survive, yeah, motherfucking labor and breaking up and all kind of relationship bulls. She's stuck to her story. She waver from her story because I pushed it off on her.

Speaker 1:

That's like officers. I am on my birthday, my wife playing this, I am a guest, I did not know this officer and that's it Just played, played until my baby strength of like quick with it. We just was coming here to do this and do that. He didn't know for real we was me, but it was. I'm like we were just coming to eat some duck, we were going to kick it. Oh, but we made it.

Speaker 1:

We made it back home and the next day I'm like I'm having my smoke break watching the sunrise and that's like that's a, that's a that's a daily thing for me of like that's like my prayer. Every day I get to see the sunrise a little bit and like this is beautiful man, but I'm smoking, getting to see the sunrise and I'm just kind of like man. We really was in jail. We really was. The team really got handcuffed and really imparted my car. We really got told God really love was by a complete stranger and I believe it because we made it home. Like we made it home, bro, we made it home.

Speaker 1:

So that's the thing that was the biggest thing to me of like anything that happened on that trip and everything that happened on that trip was supposed to happen, because it connected us and bonded us in a way that I felt like it re rebranded some trust within, there with us. Yeah, it reinitiated. Like, hey, I can trust you to rock with me in certain ways and I trust that hey and you trust that I won't put us in no type of hostile type of situations like this. No, thank you for surviving this shit. Thank you for rocking with your King. I love the fuck out of you and I'll protect you moving forward, as I always have, because, like hey, I should have never had you in this situation. Yeah, for sure, for sure, she, that's my ride. That's dope man.

Speaker 1:

That's the thing that I was talking about, and I was talking about the fact that I was talking about the fact that I was talking about the fact that I got through that, made it home safe, and I didn't want to hear the story. You want to do it on air. I didn't want to hear the story before the freedom speakers and hearing it organically, like that man, that was, that's something. Happy, happy birthday. Same to you. You was free. Yeah, I was outside, I was paying turtles and shit, but no man, that's dope man.

Speaker 1:

So, hey, look, let's touch on some of these sports real quick man. So you hit what's been going on over in Boulder, colorado, prime time coach, prime Dion Sanders. They've been doing a thing. It's personal. Yeah, the started off the season three and oh, let's talk about this first man. The hit on Travis honey Thoughts the hit on who, travis honey, the receiver, dirty hit, is located is me right, not as me, not as me, the receiver, colorado, yeah, yeah, hit guy hit like in the, in the chest, like the chest area, late hit, dirty hit by Colorado State. You know safety? I just had to show you the replay man. He out looking like he's gonna be about three, four weeks and this is the portion of Colorado's schedule where I Think I organ this week. I believe you, as see the week after that. The schedule get thick now, yeah, yeah, you know what I mean. Even Nebraska wouldn't know. You know no cupcake. But they beat him and then ultimately beating Colorado State and this is the point, he's the best player on 18 in Colorado State took him out on dirty play.

Speaker 1:

You know who that sound like? I Ain't gonna say it sound like what happened in Pittsburgh. You don't think that's a dirty play, I think it's just by chance. You know, sam, it look it. Look pretty. You know pretty textbook man. Just by chance he happened to have the right amount of pressure or weight down on his leg. You know the is the spikes from his cleats is down into the, the grassy turf that they use over in Pittsburgh and Just by chance, his leg wasn't able to move by his foot being planted. And you know Well, you ain't have to sport science that man. I'm just saying man dirty Just by chance. But those type of plays happen All in the time. You know saying and you can't cupcake tackle Nick Chubb, he gonna shake up out of there. I agree with that as well, you know, you know I just maybe just to me is this was the week of a Great players having their season cut short due to everybody having accidental. Ain't nobody practice tackling drills. Yeah, that's just the conspiracy theorists in me of like Nick Chubb, great player, go down, absolutely.

Speaker 1:

The wide receiver from Colorado, go down, was it? He was the son. Now should door, should door. Yeah, he threw for 500 yards. Yeah, yeah, no, yeah, interception for sure, shiloh, do to look just like, look just like me. Shout out the Shiloh with the pig. Six man, I'm gonna give me a Shiloh saying dirty man, he got 21. You hear SAP supposed to be going. Yeah, I was just looking at that we heading over next season. Man, I don't know how true that is, but you heard it here first. Or shout out to Colorado, shout out to Dion Sanders, like prime time.

Speaker 1:

I love Dion Sanders. He's all of our coach, yeah, yeah, even even he had me. I love Dion Sanders for the, the personality that he had, the flare, yeah that. He has the talent that backs all of this shit up for sure, and he'll rub it in your face. Oh, the great light may not be on you, but keep making, please.

Speaker 1:

When somebody is that confident in themselves and I'm a confident person but I look at him and say like that's Confident, yeah, that's sure. Yeah, he's sure you can't Shake this. Yeah, he's absolutely positive about everything, not shaking for sure. And I respect it cuz you see it in his eyes, you view, you can feel the hunger, you can see the hunger of like I Got so much love from these people. I'm showing so much love they wouldn't have died here from.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, man, and especially being man, in fact, like and you know, and I and I tend to get emotional man, like, I believe, when they play in Nebraska, shador Sanders, you can't, you know, kind of got got hit, got took down my mouth was bleeding on the sidelines spitting out blood and man, his pops, come over, take his sleeve and just kind of wipe the blood off his mouth and then just go back to coaching. You know, I'm saying that's his pops, it's your pops. Man coach them in high school, now coaching them in college and was just there to be like I got you. You know, saying you know you do that, but uh, like that's just man dope to me. Man looks a lot like coach from and I hope he noticed man, you are All of our coach. Even when we hear the pregame speeches, we can take that we ain't playing on the team, but we can take that and and put it in this life shit that we do every day. You know, saying we ain't coming, no more. We hear you know, so we with that man. So shout out to Colorado Buffalo's man, good luck this week against Oregon. And I'm pulling for him. I'm a buck I first, oh, oh. And then I'm a buff, okay, then I'm a buck, I first. If something happened, you know, next year, 12 team playoff, y'all end up playing. Just know Me and no H, hey, you know saying but you know, but we across that bridge when we get there, man, but uh. But so the touch back on it. On this browns thing, man.

Speaker 1:

The Cleveland Browns paid other shine Watson a lot of money this year, man, mr. What. 800 billion dollars. He getting some shit like that, that's Guaranteed close. Well, how you looking so far, man, especially with this latest news of chub going down? Welcome back cream hunt, by the way, glad to have you back a Cleveland guy, will it be? Guy leaves, man. But um, but what you think about the shine Watson, man? I mean, I think the crunch time is gonna be on the shine the show. Yes, of course last season he didn't get a chance to really Show and produce what he could do, just due to the allegations of off-field things. Yep, last few game women expecting him for him to make no magic, for sure, for sure.

Speaker 1:

So this season we all kind of knew previous years that the office was ran through. Do the credible, credible runner-back, nick Chubb, mm-hmm. So you had that quarterback running back punch. And then you got a barrie Cooper there. Yeah, great, tight end. So you got, and the defense was? The defense look different. It's a killer. They looked the game look prayed, playoff, pretentious line linebackers, secondary oh my gosh. Yeah, everybody is like everybody. It looked like Miles Garrett was able to hand pick who he wanted to win through two games. Let's say this man I hope I'm getting the numbers for man through two games so far this season the Cleveland Browns defense has only allowed 13 first down. So, with that being said, the defense is producing your greatest weapon that the league had not in Nick Chubb yeah, it's gone, he's been producing.

Speaker 1:

It is on Dushan Watson to have to produce, not just because of the the money, of course that, but it's meaning like, hey, you are franchise quarterback, of course the, the franchise tag, you getting paid, we're building the team around you. But now it's like a Is resting solely on your shoulders. Yeah, they were resting solely on the shoulders and where he showed the producer to end of that game, to even basically lose it by a Fumble and a touch ball scooping score is one of them. Like a you got to show more.

Speaker 1:

Because I had a conversation, just briefly, with our neighbor's father next door. I came past him, was walking the kids to the school and complimented some of the work we had done on the home and he asked about. I asked him hey, did you could watch the Browns game, just surface conversations, just, uh, you know so it's not an awkward silent days in the game he spoke about he didn't care for Deshaun Watson because of what other things that happened outside of the field. He was like he just, you know, disgusted it what it, and he just doesn't. It was a die-hard Browns fan up until you know that happened and I'm sitting there like, wow, you know it's a whole lot throw away for your own feelings. Yeah, it was a hard rounds when we're gonna die her browns man. But I'm like, as a browns man, I'm like you was like, well, yeah, you know, if that was you or I, we would have ended up in jail. Really, I'm black, you white.

Speaker 1:

I still think that case would have been handled a little bit differently and shot at his duty. It absolutely would have. But I understand the connection that was being made. It was that wasn't the point of argument, mm-hmm. But when I told him he was like what? My, well, I, you know, still watch it. He's off the field, things are off the field or, you know, most of the people still have often feel things. But I'm a fan of the team, not just not of the person you met at the person you know. All right, I gotta. I gotta say something real quick, just as a as a rebuttal to that um, d'shaun Watson is now Not played football, aside from those few games last year, is now not played football and, going on three years, he sat out the get my math right the 20, the 2019, 2020 season because he refused to play for a racist owner or for what he believed to be a racist owner. So he sat out and Afterwards that, that summer, before the season starts.

Speaker 1:

Now these allegations begin to bubble about the D'Shaun Watson and these and these masseuse, the lawyer who was a friend of the owner of the Houston Texans Rally, these women together. Okay, I ain't here to say what's true and was not, but what I am here to say is something smell funny. Funny, maybe, perhaps, perhaps the shine was getting happy endings Consensually, perhaps. Okay, perhaps, but however, I go to a woman say, hey, did he ever Say anything inappropriate to you? Oh, really, hey, you know, you know what? And let's, let's, let's get some more people to say he did ask him to say anything inappropriate.

Speaker 1:

Are you into inappropriate things being said to you during happy ending? Yeah, straight up if I'm getting them size. But hey, can you touch my dick? And you do it. Oh yeah, sure, as a person who's gotten massage and I think I made the very first time I got a massage I think I made this person uncomfortable. Oh, what you doing. I had told her after she Massage me or during the massage. I'm like man, I feel like I was like kissed on you, rubbing all on me all this pressure. I didn't have that. I'm sure she heard worse. I'm sure she heard worse. That was kind of creepy, but I'm sure she's her worst man. But you know, just in light of what your neighbor's father said, you know, and then, and also in light of what you said about you being black, he being white, in that situation being handled differently, I Think it's kind of funny that these allegations pop up after the Sean refused to play for what he believed to be a racist owner and sat out, and now these allegations start bubbling up, and that the same lawyer, the same lawyer.

Speaker 1:

It's easy to make shit stick when you got 22, 24 people saying Yup, yup, he did, yup, me too, mm. Hmm, and I've learned this from watching especially hang on real quick, the shine Watson. They hit this shit in the media too. The shine Watson was pulled over for speeding. One of the women who also accused the shine of inappropriate behavior was in the passenger seat. Was she against her will? Was you just a masseuse? Let me chill before we get canceled, man, I'm just putting it out there. The number these is this is alleged. You know, it's all alleged. All was in the passenger seat I'm becoming a better podcaster was allegedly one of the young ladies who accused the shine of inappropriate behavior was in the passenger seat when he was pulled over for speeding. Allegedly.

Speaker 1:

You ever roll with your masseuse in the car? No, I don't have a person on masseuse. I'm just saying, if you did what you in the car with me for, if I had, my wife is my masseuse and she fired because I didn't even get no massages. So I don't got no masseuse. But, as you stated, this woman's occupation to him, to the world, is a masseuse. She massage your shit. She just you know, I'm saying I know, so, hey, so, hey, man, just just saying for you watching, just saying, man, however the shine, get your shit together. All right, the city, hey man, this Cleveland, this is a football time. I don't care how great the cab is doing how great the guardians is doing. I bet this is a football town, this is a football state, this is football country. Football is king around here.

Speaker 1:

And when you, when these Cleveland Browns fans, is leaning on you, man, you know what I mean, especially with the loss of chubb. Now, come on, now, hey, come on. You, get back to get back to your former self, man. No, it ain't easy, but we, we, we leaning on you, we depending on you. And I went out and caught me a jersey. Man, I'm a father. I was in fear that I would get egged in the street for wearing it. But you know, so far, so good, so far, so good, man, you know.

Speaker 1:

So shout out to the Cleveland Browns, the whole entire organization, shout out to you, broadcasting from Cleveland Ohio, ourself. Shout out to the whole entire two, one, six, straight up, and shout out to Mama Rise Happy birthday, it's a birthday, that's it. Yeah, we'll do it, we'll finish that later. Hey, man, mama Rise reminds me of like she had a bunch of niggas that didn't know they was all her niggas at the same party for her birthday back in the day. She's, you know, like, like, like one of them in her single day. We went out to a day we had to get on the show and that's like, hey, she had it at a party about four or five niggas that didn't party as her niggas, but she calling everybody, baby, she calling everybody. Hey, baby, come help me. I'm talking to you, nigga, I'm talking to my baby. I call anybody back, but you, my baby, that's my baby back.

Speaker 1:

Hey, I heard one of my aunts say that like hey, yeah, my dude about to come here to the party. We, like I thought that was your dude. It's like oh, that's my name, it's my dude, I'm gonna be my dude. Like, where is the rank? It depends on how much they doing at that time. I'm guessing man, out of way of sound. It was like man, whatever, producing the most. Yeah, he running the show at the time. Yeah, man, hey, what are they doing? You think auntie? Hey, man, I say that man, like. So I say this Shout out to the people, all right, freedom speakers on one child, to hear me, I'm gonna bring your ears close.

Speaker 1:

Shout out to the people who are healthy enough for relationships of all kind, most definitely people who are healthy enough to handle romantic relationships, not just we fucking, because I feel like most men can fucking not have some attachment. Yeah, that's easy. I feel like some women can have sex and have not have some attachment. So not so much. That's a little bit. I feel like, especially if she got a couple in there or her main main dude, nigga, she really really like, like she got to share him and she willing to share him. Yeah, she can wear a face, she wear a face, but that still takes some emotional etiquette. That takes to be able to talk to someone. So I give you this man we living in an era right now where a lot of people are nope, I'm finished, I'm done One false move or something that looks a little suspicious or fishy, I'm gone. No second chance.

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If that is your mindset, do not step into the realm of marriage, don't step into the realm of a committed relationship where you just can't jump shit man, when your feathers get hurt, yeah for sure, when you mad or you upset about something and you like up, I might have called my other bitch, I might have called my other nigga. And marriage, that ain't that. It's like your other bitch, better be your mama you calling. Yeah, man, I was speaking to him. Yeah, I was speaking to a friend of mine a couple of weeks ago and what I told her as far as marriage go, because she the type of I don't think I've never been, I don't know, and it's like you know what the thing is these days.

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We got so much access through the social media, you know, to people. You know what I'm saying. I never knew a knew a thousand people with this social media Like I know her. So you got to know how to be unhappily married and she kind of I don't know about that. Let me break it down. Not unhappily meaning he hits me or she be not respecting me, not like that.

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However, when we going through our little patches of a dissatisfaction or just not being pleased with, say, you know performance around the house, or when money is a little funny, you need to learn how to be unhappy and manage and being like hey, yeah, we in this rough patch right now, but I'm still with you. I'm still with you. We don't get through this shit. I know what this is. This, too shall pass, but we live in a time now where it's like, as soon as the rumbles start to present themselves, it's like I'm out of here, I'm jumping ship, I'm doing whatever. Give me another nigga. I'm you know what I'm saying. That type of shit. That's where we are now. That's where we are now. So you have to learn how to be unhappily married. That's the best way I know how to put it. Yeah, yeah, I agree with that man. I put that in the same realm of like people who are.

Speaker 1:

You hear a lot of people who constantly state you weren't really there when I needed you. Yeah, like that phrase of like, well, you weren't really there when I needed you, when I really really needed you. And I'm one of the people that I've got hit with that of like you weren't really there when I really really needed you. And in my recent defense I've had to say, just, just, just, from my own sanity, so I wouldn't have a war inside of myself, of just letting this person vent I'm like hey, man, you a motherfucker that always need a nigga All the goddamn time. Like, you need a motherfucker three, you need a nigga, you need a man, you need your own man. Like and if the man you dealing with ain't measuring up, I feel in that void for sure. Like what the fuck you think, bitch? I got to stop using that word because my son's got trouble sending him, but he holding up the note and, not to say it, at least not get caught. But that being said, man, it was, it was one of them. Like you weren't really there when I really needed you and I really really needed you. It's like you really really need something, a lot, and it's overwhelming, yeah, like how resources do end, resources do need to recoup, they do need to recharge.

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How come we only deal in tragedy? Yeah, how come we only kicking it when some bull happened or the gossip, but you don't really get the congratulation or pat on the back of life and I passed my test, or I opened this, I got rid of that, I started this. He's another is you. You're moving too much in the direction that's upward and forward, beyond them. So it's like you, you move, you're doing better than them and most of most people don't like to see you doing better.

Speaker 1:

That makes sense, man. As people we do. We do tend to come together either in, in, in, great, uh, you know, uh. Happiness, you know what I'm saying. Wedding, a party, or tragedy and funeral, you know something like that. I'm like you know. So that makes a. That makes perfect sense.

Speaker 1:

And so what we'll do is we will, we'll let this simmer and we'll pick up on relationship dynamics on the next time and really and really break down what it is to have a healthy relationship. And we use a relationship A having a healthy relationship with your wife, your husband, your mother, your father, your children, your employer, your, your coworkers um, just complete strangers. So your churchmates you don't like that strong ass perfume should be wearing and make you know it by. Or that person that clapped on the one and the three instead of the two on the phone. But we'll, we'll break down that you can follow me on IG at permission. The number two speak freely podcast. That's the permission number to underscore speak freely podcast. And you can follow my other page at then bossing, that's B N B O S S N at IG, absolutely, once again. And you can follow me Layla the most on IG at Layla the most. That's L A Y L O E dot T H A M O S. Hit us up for mission to speak freely.

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